I asked this already but worded it weird..should i be mad

Question

i know this is gonna sound really high school, but..

My friend and i have been planing to go to this concert for 3 months now. she said she could FORSURE go, and told me to buy her ticket and she would pay me back. so i did. now its the day before, and yesterday she told me she might not beable to go, and she is now avoding my calls...so im stuck with Two $45 tickets that i cant use..cuz i cant go by myself.. im out $90... and cant go...

idk what to do.. is this bad enough to get pissed over? what should i say...

i mean i would call her all the time and tell her how excited i was and she said she was too..

We have gotten into a big fight be for...thats a diff story...

i have no one else to go with so dont say that.. i live in hickville and no one else wants to go to Wsrped tour...

should i be mad??

what should i say...

she is egnoring me now.. avoding my calls..

Answer 1

she needs to pay for the ticket at least. maybe you could find someone else to go with?

Answer 2

She should have paid you back a long time ago (as soon as you bought the tickets).  Yes, I would be very angry that she didn't pay her share and I have to say that I wouldn't be friends with her anymore because I wouldn't be able to trust her for anything.

Answer 3

yea i would be angry, but just becuase she said she could go at that time doesnt that everything was out of the way, you should have thought "hmm she could change her mind, she could get sick, maybe she might a death in the famliy, maybe she can't go becuase of work." i mean you guys planned this for 3 months. i would not have bought the ticket for her, didnt matter if she was my best friend. if my friend wanted me to buy the ticket, i'd tell her to give me the money to buy it.

Answer 4

Are you sure she isn't ill maybe. If she isn't ill then you have a right to be upset. Why can't you go on your own or can someone of your family come with you or maybe you have another friend or even an acquaintance who would come with you if you asked. You should go if you can. It's bad enough to let $ 45 go to waste and maybe you can sell the other ticket there. Maybe they are booked full and you can even sell it at a reduced price to someone else who wants to get in but they run out of tickets or you offer it at $ 10 cheaper than the original price then you don't lose a lot of money. Find out what happened to your friend and why she changed her mind or is she in bed and sick?

Answer 5

I'd be very annoyed.

i understand you a lot. She's obviously planned over the date of the gig, even though 1. she's said she could go for a long time now and 2. she kept saying she was really excited about it.

This is a very immature thing to do

Phone her and tell her that your angry and upset.

And also say you want a comprimise.

Theres No Way! she can ditch you with $90 spent and not used.

So either make her pay for all of her ticket and half of yours, all of her ticket

OR

you could say to her "why cant you go?" and such, then say "do what your doing today and we'll go see half the gig or something" ?

Its worth a try

otherwise tell her to not expect you to talk to her till she's payed you AT LEAST $45 for her own ticket.

whether she used it or not, she's still got to pay you back for a ticket she used or not

Good luck getting your money back (Y)

Ortherwise, go along to the gig, and tell people you're story and sell the tickets there?

xx

Answer 6

Hmmm... you could go to her house in person and ask why can't she go?

Then mebbe go with your mum or dad but don't be mad until you know why she can't go then maybe get mad unless the escuse is valid

Answer 7

Don't be mad until you talk to your friend. She might have a valid excuse for missing your calls.

However, if you do find out that she deceived you and cannot go to the concert, then YES, you can be mad.

I had a similar situation a few years ago when I bought 3 extra tickets for an event, and the person who I thought was a friend completely stopped communication with me a week before (for no apparent reason). So I was left with 3 extra tickets, $35 each. Unfortunately we have not talked since.

It sucks. Hopefully you can find another friend to go with you.  

Answer 8

well i think you should do whatever it takes to be able to talk to her. btw you should also think of this situation in her view, like put yourself in her shoes. think of a reason why she cant go, and like ignore you and stuff. she may have a problem with money and all and is embarrased to tell you, nobody knows.. so just try to understand her first and try going to the concert! you cant get 45 bucks when you go out jogging, so try to enjoy it! you can also try selling it to others if you really dont want to go anymore.

but more impt is find a way to get your friendship on the right track and dont think of getting mad first. if you think her reason is lame, thats the time to get mad. Good luck!