I ***** at him alottt?

Question

my boyfriend was supposed to pick me up today but he wasn't allowed to take his parents car so he couldn't come get me. i told him that i was really upset and a couple days ago i left my birth control at his house so i haven't been taking it, ive been blaming it on him that i don't have it which its clearly not his fault and i was making him feel bad that he couldn't come pick me up. he told me that hes sick of me blaming **** on him and i told him im really sorry that i was just upset and he told me its okay and stuff and were talking right now and were okay but i feel really bad still because i ***** at him a lot, idk.. how can i not ***** and complain at him so much? i love him to death and i cant lose him and i know if i keep doing it it might end up like that, what do i change about me?

Answer 1

Women. We are ruled by our emotions. We can't help it. It's so easy to burst out in the moment without thinking.  The best thing to do is sit back and think about it from his or another woman's perspective.  If you were just his friend, what would you think of his girlfriend?  How would you think she should treat him?  It takes work to not snap, but you'll be able to do it with practice. Apologize when you s***w up, then let it go.  Don't dwell on the mistakes or they'll get worse.  And girl, take responsibility for what you do wrong, or you'll very likely lose him over something stupid. It's not worth it.  

Answer 2

If you have a ****** problem, just don't do it to him. That's what friends are for. You'll eventually calm down. Just remember he's worth more than what ever little thing your mad at.

Answer 3

be an honest, straightforward woman and deal with the issues like a responsible person. maturity is the best thing in any relationship.