I badly need help!!!?

Question

My eldest chilren is a ''boyish type''.She's just 10 yrs/old but acting like teens.I find it had to communicate w/her.Everytime i caught her attentions she just fly like a bird,(run as she could,fly as she can)Her teacher told me that she's good at school only thing is that she taken things for granted.I can't see any problems regarding me and her father.She has only 3 friends at school.She mingle w/her younger sister well.The only poblem is she thinks that shes a boy trapped in womans body.How can i convert my child to a girl if she thinks she's a boy?

Answer 1

you can just wait is out it will pass

Answer 2

Children go through phases, trying out different personalities and gender-traits just to see what happens. If she gives you no disrespect, does well in school, gets along with her siblings, I wouldn't worry too much. Only 3 friends is OK; too many friends can cause trouble.

I was a tomboy when I was younger, I played boy's games, had boy;s toys and wore boy's clothes (except we couldn't at school). She sounds as if she's very bright, ahead of her age group. NO ONE pays attention to Mom! Get a trusted relative, a school counselor or a therapist to speak with her about acting older than her age. Face it, they grow up fast now. Just lay down the laws that are IMPORTANT, don't load her down with don't do this or that.

If your family is well-off, she will take things for granted. Losing that trait only comes with maturity. It's good she has a good relationship with her father- are you divorced? If so, she thinks she can get away with more than when father was there.

It will all settle down with age, don't despair. If she won't go to counseling, you go. If money is a problem. most states and counties have low or no--cost mental health clinics.

Keep your chin up- you have a wonderful, intelligent child. She will be fine with a mother who cares so deeply.

Answer 3

I hope you are from an other country and just have really poor language skills.  Anyway, regarding your daughter.  If she is a tomboy at ten years old that doesn't mean she'll grow up to be a transsexual.  If you want her to take more of an interest in the feminine word I suggest you (that you, got it) spend some time with her doing girl things. Go shopping, get your nails done, do some cooking, gardening and art museums together.  She may become more interested in the female aesthetic later on.  In the mean time as she spends time with you, she will become more secure and trusting.  Hopefully when she's older she will then trust to confide in you regardless of what decisions she makes.