I broke out my husbands car window?

Question

I think every six months we have a big blow out but this time was different I really wanted to kill him even had the weapon in my hand we've been together 21yrs I needed him and text him on his phone and didn't get a response no big deal he was at work so I let him know I needed my medicine and it was ready to be picked up so about 1 hour later he pulls up and gets out of the car and starts hollering at me for disturbing him while he was working and I lost it I tried to walk away and here he comes chasing me down so I picked up a handful of rocks and threw them at the car told him just leave me alone and he wouldn't he kept on so I picked up a jagged rock and launched it and his window shattered I think this marriage is almost over but this is the first time I became violent I don't know if it's the new medicine wellbutrin XL I love him this is not my ideal of a happy marriage next month will be 22yrs I don't know if this even makes sense I can't read through the tears

Answer 1

It sounds over to me and I don't believe the medicine did it.  I believe that you are very depressed and is seriously unhappy.

Answer 2

Is there anything else that he's done in the past 22, besides the medicine incident?  I think that you both should go to a marriage counselor / psychologist, or maybe you can go to a psychologist by yourself.  Everybody needs to get their problems out to somebody.  

Answer 3

I tried Wellbutrin to stop smoking and it made me a total nutcase. If that's not how you usually act, talk to your doc and get the meds changed. It's not working.  

Answer 4

Wellbutin should calm you down not make you violent.  You definitely should talk to your doctor. Getting yourself on an even keel should be a priority. Good Luck.

Answer 5

How are you an expert in mental health?

I will never understand the TC badges.

Answer 6

sounds like your a bit looney

Answer 7

ok, first off you must be older than 5 but yet you have been married 22 years...ok, first off calm down and didnt your mother ever teach you not to throw rocks and what does all that fuss do for your nerves or your heart  

Answer 8

d**n...bet hes proud of you!

Answer 9

Holy c**p.

It's totally the wellbutrin.  It's not only messing with your brain, it's also affecting your estrogen levels.  The drug companies will never admit this, but it is true.

Stop the meds for your own sanity.

Answer 10

That's krazy!!!! lol. but I feel what ur talking about. I've only been married for a little while and BOY do I ever want to just choke the c**p out of him at certain points!! lol. but I don't actually act out things like this, I just let them go and walk off. I suggest that u talk with ur hubby and let him know ur 'pressure points". hopefully the two of u can come to a understanding in the end. g/l!!!!