I broke up with my ex because she aborted her rape baby. Why would I be the jerk?

Question

Do you self-righteous feminists honestly feel that pro-baby-slaughter is justified? She will remember that rape the rest of her life, baby or not. And the baby didnt deserve to die. Abortion is never right. My ex is no better than the man that raped her. Probably worse, since the rapist left her alive. My ex had a choice to make... (which by the way I am not pro choice, obviously)... but she did make a choice I did not approve of. Saving yourself from nine months of inconvenience isnt worth another human beings life. And in the end, adoption is always an alternative. She nor I had to take care of the baby. But the choice to murder it is unacceptable.

Answer 1

explain a little better?!?

Abortion is a touchy subject, either you agree or you don't. You shouldn't be considered a jerk for the way you feel but you should let her down lightly, it's not her fault she was raped. Further more, it may have been too hard for her to carry a baby of such a nightmare conception to have to remember and re-live. Always place yourself in her shoes...

Best of luck.

Answer 2

Some of these other people answering this question sound pretty freakin' shallow. Sounds like a tragedy for both of you. You lost a girlfriend and she lost a gift from God. No excuse for abortion. She'll remember that rape for the rest of her life with or without a baby. Baby didn't deserve to die.  

Answer 3

Maybe your the raper.  That would explain why you're a jerk.  Or maybe she just doesn't like you anymore and knew you'd be upset if she called you a jerk.  The possibilities are endless. . .  

Answer 4

Your not the jerk.  The guy that raped her is.  I can understand how you feel, but I also understand how she feels.  Rape is not something anyone gets over with just the blink of an eye, you know.  Especially if they have a constant reminder of it happening.  I probably would have broken it off with her long enough to give her time to heal, but I would have remained her friend just for moral support.

Answer 5

hmmm i dont know well she probably though you were going to be with her know matter what! and sence your not she must be pist!

wat age is she!

is she is younger then 18 then no duh shes going to abort her baby shes doing it for you and her to try to make your lifes easyer

Answer 6

I guess on this forum you have to assume someone is sincere.  You should find a woman who shares your beliefs, and discover this ahead of time before you get too serious with her.  Abortion is wrong, no matter what the circumstances.  There are many people who understand this.  If you are Catholic, try to find another conservative, like-minded Catholic.  

Answer 7

Read your own question. "I broke up with my ex because she aborted her rape baby" Jerk.

Every day with her pregnancy she would remember what happened to her. How can you be so insensitive? She's better off without you!

Answer 8

Were you going to take care of the baby? Support the baby, or treat it like your own. Not only does she har felt about the child like she did. Jerk?? Maybe not. BUT DEFINATLY INSENSETIVE TO HER FEELINGS! Being with someone is not just being with them. Its loving them and supporting them in there own personal choices.You left her in one of her biggest times of need. If the shoe was on the other foot would she be a jerk??

Answer 9

Because she got RAPED. How would you feel if a big sweaty fat woman raped you? And then you were forced to carry that baby. Although you might think you would be able to live with that now, it would be different if something that tramatic happened to you. Im not trying to be mean but rape can alter someones life, she didnt need that baby to remind her the rest of her life. And yes, she could have given it up for adoption but that child will still then always be around to remind her, even though it wasnt the childs fault.

Answer 10

It depends. First, she may think that its up to her to decide (pro choice). secondly, maybe keeping the baby reminds her of one of the most horrible things thats ever happened to her. remember, she was raped, someone to advantage of her and hurt her physically and mentally/emotionally. this is not a baby made from love or choice. While it is your choice wether you can be with someone who aborts a baby or not, she also has the choice to do what she thinks she can live with. I personally am pro-life, so i couldn't ever be with someone who did that. But she was hurt very deeply and maybe she didn't want reminded of that. Also, rape victims tend to lash out, sometime hate all males after what one male did to them.