I broke up with my girlfriend 2 months ago and I am in such deep pain please help!?

Question

I am 17 years old and I had my girlfriend for more than a year. I truly fell in love with her very deeply. We had a fight on the phone and we both said bad things and she provoked me to say "its over" for the reason that she said that she doesn't know what love is bigger, either the other guy she was with before me or my love?? she said she was confuse, and then I asked her to decide either me or him??? she said not to make her decide then I was so sad and mad at the same time and I broke up with her.

Then she never wanted to take me back and I have tried many times to talk with her and for her to give me another chance but she says I am anoying and she even blocked me from msn and myspace. Then I went on monday to the Uruguayan parade where she was going to be at and tried to talk with her but she rejected me and ignored me.

I love her to death and I have cried everyday for 2 months since I broke up with her. I really love her but she treats me like ****. And I have tried to get over it but it doesn't seem possible. I looked for hobbies and things to entertain myself but I still cannot get over it. What should I do? Everyday I become more in love with her. I had the chances to be with other girls but I can't I really love this girl with all my heart. It is not something that comes from my mind but it comes really from my heart, I can feel it when I speak with her when I cry and when I think about her, the pain comes from my chest.

What should I do????

Answer 1

Man I'm so sorry, I wish I could tell you what to do but I have no idea.  I mean I wouldn't even know what to do if i was in your shoes.   Try your best to make her see that you're sorry and that you've changed I guess.    Sorry but I don't know what else to tell you than that.  Good luck and I hope that you can get back together with her.

Answer 2

gosh robbie..we r in tha same...yeah if u want add me..i sent u my email...

Answer 3

yoo ma du i know wah jrr talkinn abut imm in dhis prob ryh now man

Answer 4

All I can tell you is that you're giving her the reaction that she wants.  She wants you to cry and beg her.  I know, I went through the same deal.  Do like she does and ignore her.  If you've been crying, I can tell you're a pretty sincere guy.  So if you're more than just a game to her, she'll come back to you.  Eventually things will work themselves out.  Hope this helped mate.

Answer 5

You are learning one of the hardest lessons in life.  Words can be sharper than ANY knives, and cut twice as deep.  All you can do is chalk it up to experience and be more careful in future relationships.  Get on with your life.

Answer 6

You need to move on man. She sounds like she's moved on and I know its tough, but it's probably over. Youre 17, which means youll probably be going to college soon. When you get to college youre going to meet ALOT of people, most of whom will be girls. You'll get to put yourself out there, see the dating scene, and find what you REALLY need in a girl. By the time you leave college, you'll have alot of experience under your belt and may have even found youre one true love by then. I know you don't want to hear it, but it doesn't sound like this girl is your one true love, because if she was she would love you back without even having to think about it. Youre young, you have alot to look forward to. Enjoy yourself, and make sure you LEARNED something from that relationship that you can take forward to your next

Answer 7

i am really sorry you feel this way, but please don't take this the wrong way cause if she is treating you like **** and not even bothering with you anymore, then you need to deal with this. she is a waste of time and only cares about herself. even though you are in alot of pain now, it will take time for the pain to ease but believe me, it will go. and also one day in your ex girlfriends life, she will feel like this cause someone else will hurt her in the way she has hurt you and she know what its like. have you got any friends you can talk about this to or family? don't make your self suffer all on your own. you are worth better then this. or why don't you try and see a canceler that may help. i know I'm not much use for you, but i do feel really sorry for you as iv been there myself and I'm just a full time single mum looking after my baby son. you take care and do feel free to email me if you need to talk, take care