I came out to a guy friend!?

Question

I was a nervous wreck when I was writing the email to him and I told him about our mutual friend who I have feelings for and everything..and to my delight he was cool about it he was only mad because I said i never liked him..he thinks its because he is not s**y enough lol..I feel so exhilarated you know he is the 9th person ive told and the first guy.He was very accepting.I feel like now all i need to do is tell that mutual friend of ours but im so nervous about that because that guy is my best friend.

Answer 1

My friend who's g*y asked his friend who he faniced was he g*y. His friend said "no" and was taken aback, but they both got over it. In other words, go for it! Tell the mutual friend, if he knows you well enough he might already suppose it. Just don't expect him to like you back, like my friend did, it could lead to disappointment.... But well done for telling people!  

Answer 2

You should of stayed in the closet man. The dont ask dont tell policy works best my man

Answer 3

cool.  glad you came out.

the only thing is, your guy friend my react differently to know you are g*y than to knowing you are g*y and have feelings for him.  go slow; start with the first.  it really depends on how mature he is.  hopefully he will accept it and if he doesn't have these feelings, will feel complimented that someone likes him.  good luck.

Answer 4

frist!

Answer 5

Your never gonna know unless you try and if you don't you'll always wonder for the rest of your life what could have been. Just go for it. Even if it's not the reaction you want, at least you'll get it off your chest so to speak and you won't go through life regretting that you never even tried. And hey, if it works then great and if not then go for the first guy you told and was upset you didn't like him first. Good luck.

James

Answer 6

congratulations :)

I'd first have to know if the guy you have a crush on is also g*y/bi before giving advice on how to go about it.  

Like with any good friendship though I think honesty is the best policy!  And any really good friend will still be your friend if you tell them you have a crush on them :)  Only someone not worthy of your friendship would freak out and run away.

Answer 7

Be very careful. You say that you have "feelings for" this guy. Has he ever shown any sign that he might be g*y himself? If not, I would take it slow. You may scare your friend away.

Answer 8

Thats really difficult to come out and its really cool that you did!

Hope ur frend is just as accepting when u tell him!

and i h0pe he understands (which he should bc u guys r best frends)!

  

G00D LUCK :)

Answer 9

congrats for coming out! its a hard process. hopefully when you tell that guy he will be as understanding as your other friend. good luck!!

Answer 10

this wasn't really a question...

Answer 11

aw, congrats dude. i hope the next is just as accepting. and lol, i'm sure he's s**y. ^_^

but if he's ur best friend i'm sure he'll be fine with it. best of luck. ^_^

Answer 12

This is not a "tell your story" forum, this is ask questions/get answers.

Answer 13

Your g*y

Answer 14

well hey, haha that's great that everyone's understanding

i'm sure your best friend will understand, even if he doesn't have feelings for you

Answer 15

Good for you!!!

If he's really your best friend, he'll love & accept you no matter what. :)

Answer 16

Good job, be proud of yourself for taking such a big step. Huzzahs are in order. Now just think about the way you want to tell your best friend. If your other friends are cool with it, then I'm sure he'll be too. They sound like a good group of people.

Just take a deep breath and go for it.

Answer 17

Good for you!  I'm glad you have such good friends who aren't afraid of who you are.  I hope the next friend you tell is just as accepting.  :)

Answer 18

well don't be worried. if he as good of a Friend as you think he is then he will be fine with the fact you g*y evan if he dose not like you back, its all ways worth a shot! good luck! x*x