I can't believe i'm 24 yrs old?

Question

its 1st august of 2008. i've turned 24 years old. i don't hav a job. still living with family. still studying and struggling. taking diploma in business admin. only gonna graduate mid next year. i'm so ashamed of myself. and currently heartbroken. lonely and lost after a break up with a 17 yr old girl for a 10 months relationship. i felt so miserable with myself. how could i move on? while she still close to me and give me all the benefits but doesnt want to be with me? is she a kid or a manipulater or what? i'm so confused. all the bad feelins mixed up in me. HELP ME GOD! :(

Answer 1

Quit feeling sorry for yourself, get a job, get a place of your own - it'll amaze you how many women you'll meet when you don't scare them off by saying you live at home still and don't work.

Answer 2

why are you going out with a 17 year old? SHES A KID FFS!!

This is what you get for not studying hard.

you need to clean up your life. Start fresh and forget the past. plus living with your family at 24 isn't so bad and get a new gf who is NOT A KID

Answer 3

wow uhm..  u need 2 get off your *** and do sumthin with your life.... RITE NOW.. GO GET OFF Y/A AND GO!!!

Answer 4

Pamperd...rings a bell?  Well, stop dateing kids and try to get in to some subculture like wampiers or motorbikes. Subcultures are the only cure for you!

Answer 5

You went out with a 17 year old girl at 24? You still live with your parents and no job?

Wow, sucks to be you.

Answer 6

17 can you say statutory rape? at 24 living at home you got it made once you get on w/your life you will know how good you have it. the mortgage payments, car payments, wife payments LOL enjoy the youth. there is a saying that the youth is a precious gift too bat is wasted on the young. You are just getting started enjoy life because it gets really really complicated soon enough.  there will be other girls other heart aches, good times bad times etc... its life......

Answer 7

Pray

Answer 8

only u can help ur self.straighten up man.clean up ur life.ull get there,and will have a great life

Answer 9

Um, first off why are you messing around with a littler girl, ofcourse she doesn't know what she wants yet. And being with a younger girl like that makes you feel like a younger child. Go and find older women!! Who has morals, and are actually grown up, to help you act and grow up to your own age. Hanging around younger people only makes you act younger, or feel helpless later bc your so cought up in that young age. You won't get anywhere feeling sorry for yourself.  Act your age, go out and get things accomplished, and stop feeling sorry for yourself!  

Answer 10

Best thing I can say man is keep with the studying, get yourself a good job, move out when your ready to, and find someone that's your age to date.  I'm not saying that because I think its wrong that your dating a 17 year old, but its smarter to be with someone your own age because they will be on the same maturity level as you and have a job and all that ya know?  Anyways just don't get in the gutter cause that will probably make your struggle even worse.  Be strong about things.  Just look towards the future and don't live in the past.  That's my mono and it always works for me.  But for now if you wanna have a happier successful life then you should probably take an ease on relationships and worry about your job, studying, house, etc.  I really hope I helped you man.  Best of luck!

Answer 11

Take a step back, and look around. You are taking steps to improve your situation. You are in school! - THAT'S HUGE! You're on your way to being able to support yourself.

As for the girl. Break all ties, it's only going to hurt to see her and know she doesn't share the same feelings you have. "Benefits" don't mean much without the feelings that go along with them.

Remember you are the only one that can take steps to improve yourself, and your situation. 24 and living at home isn't bad. - My husband was 27 when he moved out of his parents house. - I'm not kidding. My sister was 29, and my step-brother 32, when they moved out. Maybe something is wrong with my family?!  

Answer 12

if i were you i wouldn'd stress about being 24 and not having all those things. you'll graduate soon and i'm sure you'll find a job too. be glad that you have your family to support you. if you are still emotionally attached to this girl (which you seem to be) i wouldn't be with her. you'll only hurt yourself more. she doesn't seem like a nice girl and there are lots of them around. you won't be lonely forever - in fact you'll find the girl of your dreams one day.

do you have anyone you can talk to? i think you need someone you trust to just talk about your feelings. that person will be able to put things in perspective and you'll feel less confused.

best wishes!