I can't believe my parents did that to my friends?!!?

Question

Hi, guys. I really need your help and advice.When my friends came over to my house my mum was complaining about how disgusting they are, she gets really mad if if we mess things up, even just a little bit. And when my dad came home, he was the same thing with my mum and asked them to leave! Why are they doing this to me?! Do they not want me to make friends?!

I love my friends, like you love yours as well and I don't want them to change, but now they can't come over my house now, so we meet up at the park near our houses. I have'nt made many friendsfor the past 2 years (i moved) and I won't get any if they keep complaining about my friends. Please help me! What should I do?!

thnxs. xx

Answer 1

go talk to ur parents about it straight to face.

cuss if u have to and if they abuse u tell them ull never forgive them.

just talk to them straight to face.

i cant believe ur parents no affence

Answer 2

That is easy. Don't hang at your house anymore. Hang at the local park or other outdoor location. Hey, you get more privacy anyway. If your parents do not want you at the house then they don't get to watch over you. Their loss really, and pretty counter-productive behaviour on their part.  

Answer 3

Ask your parents for a meeting. TALK about it.

Just have one friend over and follow your parents rules exactly.

Then build up to 2 0r 3 friends.

Answer 4

First of all its your parents house not yours! Do you go to work everyday or take responsibility for its up keep, pay the bills and the food?

Show a little respect for you parents, have a word with them and reach a compromise. When you have your own house you will always want to keep it nice especially when you go to work all day just to pay for it.

Answer 5

Well, you should have friends that are respectful of your home.  Other kids don't have the right to go making a mess in anothers home.  That's a big lack of respect.

I had 4 kids.  And all of their friends picked up before they left.  The only ting I was left with was dishes!  And my kids learned real fast, it was their job to do them too, once their friends left.

Answer 6

just go up your

freinds houses

instead of yours

or just go out

around with your mates

Answer 7

We have similar problems with our girls. Normally they are great, but when they bring their friends round they start showing off, and make a huge mess all over the place.

I suggest you look at the way you behaved and see if it was designed to impress your friends or your parents

Answer 8

try getting your friends to respect your parents house!!!