I can't change. I need help?

Question

Growing up as a half Korean guy, not only I don’t look good but also I look very different. Because of that, I was picked on a lot by my peers that I now I feel alienated.

Being introverted and shy multiplied the problem. I become withdrawn from the society which led to my poor social skills.

Deep down I know that I’m smart and deserve better. I have big dreams, I’m in dental school and at the top of my classes, I’m very passionate about starting and running my own big business one day, I read a lot and use my time effectively, only I don’t have the guts to do what I know.

I have poor self-esteem, severe social anxiety and terrified of approaching and speaking to girls….and it’s very frustrating.

I feel kind of hopeless as I can’t change the way I look and even my voice.

What should I do?

Answer 1

what ****** a******s.

i seriously hate people like that. ignore them. you have a wonderful life, you are blessed an intellectual gift, and your looks will come some day. look for a look that looks nice on you. i wish i had intellect like you have :(

Answer 2

Being smart takes more than just grades on a transcript. A smart person would not be asking this question. I know you need help but I think the first step is to accept humility. Come down to earth first because no girl will ever try to climb so high for you.