I can't dance and I need help?

Question

Okay well this is kind of embarrassing. I'm fourteen and in tenth grade and dancing these days is just basically like grinding/humping like. And I can't really do it! I have a thin shape not really very curvy at all, and I just look awkward moving. It makes me self-conscious because my friends tease me (just joking around) but it really gets to me! I'm so nervous for homecoming which is 2 months away, because if I get a date I don't want to disappoint them. I just don't feel s**y! How come 10 year olds can grind and I can't? Any tips/tricks to 'loosen up' and be a good dancer?

Love Haleigh<3

Answer 1

hehe your question and the way you wrote it is adorable

im giving you a star just for that! xD

-practice in the mirror

-try learning new dance steps with tutorial videos [youtube hello!]

-and don&#039;t hump..break it down homie xP! [if people see that you can actually dance dance i dont think they&#039;ll care about your grinding]

-make sure you go with someone your comfy with

-BE YOURSELF...if you&#039;re a fool...then so be it!

GOOD LUCK AND BEST WISHES

Answer 2

ask your friends to help

Answer 3

I am in the same situation :(! 13, 8th grade...did you skip a grade?

Well my friend turned 15 today and he asked me to homecoming, I said yes and now I feel really lame because we were at dance practice and all the other girls were moving really smooth and I just hung out with the guys cuz I felt awkward. Although he and I did start doing the disco :P Okay back to your question! I have just been practicing in my room *with the door shut* trying to get better at it. Maybe all you need is practice in a place where you don&#039;t feel awkward.

Answer 4

i feel ya girl! you really just have to let yourself go in the music, practice in the mirror and try to make things flow a little better. practice alot because dance isnt something that you just are born with some people have to work to be good!

Answer 5

hey 13 year old, grade 10 student here..

i love to dance and im pretty good and you

know what got me to this stage in my life ?

practice and watch alotta music videos

just not the wuns that are all bump[n]grind..

things like j.lo or something  

Answer 6

Wow.  Who humps? at homecoming you just show up. take a picture. leave, get ****** up, and maybe have s*x with your date.

i don&#039;t think its it the dancing you have to worry about.

Answer 7

Well it is because they are more nimble. Grinding and humping are not dance moves you need to start your own style that suits you and who knows it may become a popular dance move.

Answer 8

idk. try watching napoleon dynamite.

Answer 9

lol I can&#039;t dance at all either and my boyfriend is a great dancer and loves to i always feel so dumb

Answer 10

Part of it is the guy you are with. if you don&#039;t want to look like a fool ask a guy out and pratice with him :)

you can also ask your girlfriends to help you out..just don&#039;t be too forward cause they might think you are Bi or a L*****n