I can't decide wat to do?! i would like to work,but i can't help myself thinkng about my 3yr. old son at home

Question

I can't decide wat to do?! i would like to work,but i can't help myself thinkng about my 3yr. old son at home

Answer 1

No question, only do it if you must to feed and house them.

Answer 2

Listen, my mother worked when I was little, but as my siblings and I grew up and we moved she was able to stay at home BECAUSE she'd put money away. I think, to this day, that because my mother was home for me in the years it really mattered - when I had raging hormones - that I am a better, and a happier person. Your son needs to realize that you won't always be there - and now is the best time to do it so that he'll realize you'll try to be there when you can, but he also needs to learn to be independent. You aren't abandoning him, just helping him develop independence. So, find a job and get a babysitter!

Answer 3

He will be in school shortly... go ahead and work!  He needs the seperation as difficult as it may seem.  It will be a lot harder on you than him.  Get back into the groove of working!!!  Nothing is more satisfying!