I can't take this anymore...help please?

Question

Okay, this has been going on for quite sometime but..theres this guy i like, and i told him and he thought i asked him out which i cleared up right away..i never asked him out, i just told him that I liked him and he knows that now but ive liked him for like a year or two now and whenever i see him its like..i go to like..Jello and i freak out but he doesnt notice but he is super nice but the thing im concerned about is i have a lot of friends and alot of guys havce asked me out abut i have to say no and then i think of him and all of my friends say OMG u guys would make such a cute couple and it is so true his friends think so too but whevever hes in the same place as me he will avoid me or if i walk by him he wil look away..but his friend might lok at me and smile and stuff plz dont say u have to ask him or tlak to hikm about it but we dont really talk its mostly like Hi inthe hallway and Maybe a text or two. saying whats up or something and he always replies back i know he doesnt like me but i cry about this alot because of the way he makes me feel i know you might think im pathetic but i hate felling this way and i need help ASAP so i can contain myslef so it doesnt get in the way of my schoolwork please please help.. Thank ypu sp much my grattiitude is much expressed.

Signed,

A Teenager In Denial..UGH

Answer 1

Wow, you're really upset about this aren't you? Well, as much as I'd like to help you, I really don't think that there's anything I can say that will help you. But I'll try my best...

I guess that since he doesn't like you and you're just freaked out about why the feelings aren't going away. Well, the sad truth is that they never entirely fade if they're strong. Normally, the first thing that I'd say would be to talk to him about it. Obviously, that's the last thing that you want to do. I think that you should find someone that you are  willing to talk to then (a friend, a trusted relative, etc.). The only way that you start to move on is by talking it out (or by finding someone new, but I don't think that's really what you want right now). You're not pathetic. We've all been there. But like I said, I can't really help you. I'm really truly sorry, my friend.

Signed,

A Lost Loser and Miserable Loner...sigh...