I can never be honest with this person?

Question

I can never be honest with my best friend (friends since 3rd grade). whenever i just say how i feel she always starts to cry and blame me and gets defensive and its just with me. For example one of my friends s like "yea i can tell _so and so- anything!" and it drives me crazy should i just keep her out of my problems? i mean one of my friends even hit me cuz i supposedly made her cry and the friend didnt even know what was going on and well my friend (since 3rd grade) is sooo overly dramatic and its hard to deal with ppl...and shes always making my life complicated

Answer 1

you are too young to be going through that.try not spending so much time with that friend.Friends will come and go.

Answer 2

Maybe you should just accept the fact that you can not confide in your friend..

Answer 3

I would find a new friend.

A best friend is the one person that you can be yourself with no matter what. They should accept you for who you are and support you.

If you can't do that with this person then she is not your best friend.

Answer 4

Sounds like you need new and nicer friends.

God luck & best wishes.

Answer 5

i think that you shouldn't stand by

your feelings are as important as hers.

she should understand that.

Answer 6

I have a friend that is basically the same. I told her that I want her to know things but she means too much to me that I don't want to make her cry and not tell her things. She was so happy and we resolved everything. if I were you, I would do the same. Try it, you never know if it could help.