I can not believe what my ex and his new girlfriend did?

Question

im pregnant and i was with a guy for almost 2 years until he found out i was pregnant and we broke up and he got another girlfriend. we havent talked or seen eachother in months. his parents want nothing to do with me or the baby.. so here the scoop

i was with my mom in a store and i went outside for a few minutes and my ex pulls up with his new girlfriend and rolls down his window and laughs.. and she points and laughs.. and im standing there like a shocked idiot... and now im hysterically crying.. what would you do?! they laughed in my face...

Answer 1

Take him to court and make him pay child support

Answer 2

Just know that you will have the last laugh when the baby is born and you take him to court and file for child support. You can have the court garnish his wages so he can't get out of paying, and if he quits his job they will take his tax returns. Who will be laughing then?

Answer 3

Make him laugh all the way to court, file against him for child support and medical bills. He used you and now he's laughing at you. I'm sure he was the love of your life. take is immature *** to court and soak him for child support. I promise you he'll stop laughing. Child support for the next 18years. Good Luck

Answer 4

Awe, I'm so sorry that happened to you!

You have to do just what you did. Stand there and ignore the haters!!

Answer 5

He a jerk and don't pay attention to them. Wait and see when he get paper that he has to pay child support. yes after the baby born go file child support on his ***. They do dna test first which prove that he is the father and be court order to pay child support and he have to pay no matter want he thinks... Then you can laugh back at him for it.

Answer 6

he'll be the last one laughing when you take his @$$ to court to get a dna test and demand child support.

Answer 7

aw honey, so sad for you, they were very nasty.

BUT you will have the last laugh ... when you have that lovely little baby and when that lovely little person starts to smile and interact with you and thinks that you're the most special person in the whole wide world (coz you are!) and you love that little person un-conditionally and he / she loves you un-conditionally ... THEN you will look back on today and smile at THEIR immaturity and you will feel sorry for THEM.

That's a promise!

((((((hugs to you and baby)))))) H x

Answer 8

I cant say that I can feel your pain in this situation but I can most definitely relate to it in some ways. The main thing is that this "boy" is failing to realize that its not going to be just about him in few months. He's trying to hurt your feelings but when the reality of it is that he's disrespecting you. That girl who he has on his side laughing at you will soon be laughing at him because she's not going to drop a dime in his hands when it comes to paying for your child. They need to grow up and this reality check will help the both of them. He's gonna be sorry about it one day because he's going to end up hurting that child's feelings with the bull****...Just tell him the GAMES are OVER and someone more important is taking over!!  And you know what girl, dont worry about him and dont stress yourself out about it but instead focus on preparing for your new blessing...

Answer 9

The joke is on her. It'll just be a matter of time until she's in your position. I don't know why women hook up with guys like him. I mean, if he's the type to leave his pregnant girlfriend, what makes her think he's going to have any more consideration for her?

Answer 10

try to avoid them as much as possible, and if you see them turn the other way, forget him. He is obviously NO GOOD at all, and you and your baby better off without him, take care of yourself and your baby, and another man will come along, just give it time and make sure he's the right one for you and your baby.  But for now just try to stay away from their negativity and focus on your lil one! good luck sweetie!

Answer 11

You'll be the one laughing when he has to pay up on child maintenance. Hit him where it hurts, and hit him hard

Answer 12

Forget about the idiot. He is obviously childish and immature, and the way I see it he did you a favor by leaving (as harsh as that sounds) because now you only have to raise one child instead of two (him).

Laugh right back at them and their immaturity and desperateness (is that even a word?) to get to you, and just believe in yourself that you are better off without them and their stupidity.

((HUGS)) It will be okay :-)

Answer 13

I would write it down on paper exactly how it happenned.

that way you have it for the future without twisting it or fogging it out in your memory.

that way in the future if he ever tries to come at you, or if he smartens up and tries for custody.... you will have it as a document and not just "some memory"

Answer 14

Ouch.  All I've got to say is that kharma is a *****!  They will get theirs.

Answer 15

He wasn't worth it. You will find someone that loves you. And when that girl leaves him, you and your new love and the baby will all be sitting in the car and you can roll down the window, and you and your new man can laugh at him.

Either she leaves him heart broken or she'll end up pregnant. When she does and he leaves her too, you can laugh at her then too.

Answer 16

He sounds like he's no good!! You & your baby are better off without him! And dont worry about what they did! There both jealous! And he's going to knock her up leave her & who will be laughing then?

But if you ever see them out again..be nice! Beleive it will eat them up!!!!!!!

I'm soo sorry your having to go through this. But try not to stress to much. It's not good for the baby!!

Answer 17

I am so sorry. That is horrible. They sound real immature. I know that it is hard to ignore it. To be honest though neither one are worth your energy. He sounds like he is not good enough to be a part of yours and your childs life. If you need a friend or need someone to talk to I would be more than happy to listen.

Michelle

Answer 18

Tell everyone how horrible people they are.  Next time it happens look at them like they are the most hateful and pathetic people on Earth....because if they are not, they come pretty d**n close.

Answer 19

you just watch. that girls gonna wind up in your position and you can laugh at her. im sorry that happened to you.

Answer 20

you can laugh in his face when your baby is born and you own half of his paycheck.

Answer 21

you hold  your chin up, let that creep go, ignore that girl - concentrate on your health, your baby and being a new mom. you are being the responsible one here. he is obviously a user of girls, that girl will get hers. your crying will stop. when it does, because you are hurting, you just think how lucky are you that you will have a wonderful baby to raise and this jerk will still be a jerk. not having the father in the picture is not the end of the world, even though it seems like it right now. a lot of guys lure girls into s*x, into not thinking about protection. you are not alone in this situation. guys are real as---h--- a lot of times. FORGET HIM! you know the saying - sticks and stones, well, he can't hurt you anymore. DON'T LET HIM. show him that you are going to be fine, you will handle this totally without him. many kids start out without their fathers, mine did. both of my boys are educated, handsome, hard working people with fruitful lives of their own now. you can do this and if you truly want this baby, you will do this. so like i said, chin up chickie, you start working on names, getting baby stuff together, all that. Enjoy being a mom

Answer 22

ohhh thats terrible, i'm sorry, just don't let them get to you, just ignore them. you'll find some1 that you love and that love you and that won't walk out on you. Hope i helped =D

Answer 23

ignore it and move on, hes obviuosly is an a hole

Answer 24

omg what an *** hole good thing you left him remember he is going to do the same to her too.well take care don't worry in a few months you going to be the happiest mom ever with your  baby trust me

Answer 25

Have the last laugh

Go see a lawyer

Set up a DNA test and get money from him

He can laugh all he wants, he will have to support the child any way.  I bet when he gets the paper after the child is born for DNA testing and child support, he will not be laughing