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When I am unwell - depression/social anxiety/general anxiety/PTSD/BPD I curl up at home. I see nobody (except my once weekly therapy session) and I just live alone. My nights become day and day become nights. I get headaches and sleep alot and my eating gets weird. I am lonely and in deep pain but I cant reach out for help because I dont know what to say and I dont want anyone to see the state I am in - I wouldnt want them to come around and see me unwashed and the house a mess etc I would be so ashamed.Then when I am well enough to go out I can ask for help. I tell them there are times where I cant pick the phone up to ring this crisis nurse I am intouch with. I literally cant beleive he exsists when I am in such a state. I have no friends and family are far away so nobody knows I am in such a state. I battle suicidal thoughts alone. They never go to wanting to do it but I can self harm sometimes if it gets too much pain.When I am well I am very very high functioning. When I am well enough I am pretty anxious and unwell but not to the point of needing to be kept an eye on as such - like for my own safety - I mean I come through the times. Then when I am in a bad state I am totally alone. I am in a total mess and because I dont show people this side of me to the extent that it is I dont get help. I am just too ashamed to show how far I have crashed and I just stay in the safety of my home until I can function enough to go get some help.I know my life seems like a pointless exsistance but I always have hope that the good times will oneday stay and the crashes wont happen anymore. When that happens I will put heaps back into society I just cant do it from this collapsed heap I am in currently. I am sitting in a dark hole waiting to get well enough to come out. I am in my late 20's I want to get married and have children and all these normal things but how can I when I am far away from the world. It breaks my heart that I am this way. I am ashamed and people say I dont understand why you havent got someone your a very attractive women etc. But that means nothing because inside I feel so death and empty. As time goes on the attractiveness will go and nobody would want me then anyway so then what will they say? Plenty of people live alone and have happy lives??? Time is running out.How do I express the pain and what words do I say to ask for help? When I am unwell I can hardly speak so how do I say help me when no words come out. Then when I am well enough I try to explain this to the crisis nurse and he has a hard time understanding that I crash so badly and loose so many of my abilities because I am able to articulate well when I am well enough and I loose touch with how bad being bad is because it gets lost in my memory until the next time when I loose my voice and crash again.I am so sad. I am so ashamed I am like this. I am a graduate I have talents and I am creative all these things when I am well but the flip side is so starkly opposite I need to keep my life secret so nobody know what a mess this shining star gets into. What can I do to get out of this and stay better and be better forever?Thank you in advance. Thanks for reading all this.
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