I cannot find women attractive if they've had a child. How abnormal and/or dysfunctional is that?

Question

For example, I don't date women who have had a child. Not because kids bother me (I love kids), but because I just can't get myself to be attracted to mothers. Even if I think they're attractive beforehand, once I find out they've had a child, forget about it, it's gone!

Or, actresses that I think are very s**y, once they have a child, they lose most of their attractiveness to me.

I've tried to stop this from happening, but it's beyond my control. I can't help it. I just find childbirth so graphic and gruesome that I can't get over the imagery. I shudder at the thought of having to go through childbirth; I'm glad I'll never have to!

For me, here is the most important consequence of this... I'm 28 and single now, but I think I can only marry someone if they want to adopt. Otherwise, I'm going to find my wife perpetually unattractive after we have kids!

Is this highly abnormal, or is this somewhat common for men?

Answer 1

i am a mom. maybe the moms that you are meeting are square. in other words, its not you its them.

Answer 2

ROFLROFLROFLROFLROFL

Answer 3

It's more immature than abnormal.  Grow up.

Answer 4

i understand and of course this is not your choice. maybe you are in denial about why you find mothers unattractive. maybe when you think of mothers you think of old age, not fun anymore, or maybe commitment. maybe maturation scares you. instead of seeing them as disgusting and having been through something graphic, which obviously they have, have consideration or admiration for what the human body goes through. i mean its not like these women are heroes for giving birth, sh*t, im not saying that. i dont think you are immature, the first answerer is an idiot. sorry! good luck to you.

Answer 5

Ha ha, I find men with children unattractive. Once I find out he's a dad, there goes the attraction. To each their own. Just stay away from the MILFs.

Answer 6

I dont think its abnormal nor is it common for men. Everyone is different and attracted to different ppl in their own way.

I dont dig short guys...........even if they are the last men on earth.........I'd rather be a l***o.......we all different........thats just life.