I cannot marry an Non-Arab girl ?

Question

idk what happened to me i used to dislike marryin an arab (im arab too btw.) now after months of racisim against the arabs by ajams. im starting to think i can not marry an ajam. i mean, i think i will marry an ajam then maybe 10 years later i will regret it. cause my arabness will get the best of me. what do you think i should do ? work on my views or just marry an arab ? or marry a half ajam half arab ?

Answer 1

hey, no one is forcing you to marry a non arab.

Why are you making a big deal.

Oh and the arabs are also extremely racist (so dont just blame us Turks). I see them here in the UAE how they act towards subcontinental people and how they kiss western ......(no offence, im just saying the facts) :)

Answer 2

Marry whoever you love. Race has nothing to do with it.

Answer 3

I don't thing you are ready to marry anyone right now

Answer 4

I don't know what an ajam is , but your concerns sound racist

Answer 5

Marry whom u love dont think about race

Answer 6

when u love some1 everything changes and nothing seems to make sense or even matter !! so arab or none arab won't matter when ur in love with this person !!

so just put in ur mind that not every ajami is racist !! and Y!A is just a forum not real life !!

love can over come anything !

Answer 7

If you're racist against non-Arabs, then it would probably not be a good idea for you to marry one. However, I hope you realize that your beliefs are irrational and stupid.

Answer 8

Arab hate christian so please beware  

Answer 9

I would say marry your own kind [Arab] and you wont regret anything inshallah.

Answer 10

did u hear that song of backstreet boys that said..

I don't care who u are, where u from , what u did.. as long as u love me..

just choose what ur hearts want.. otherwise u will regret the rest of ur life  

Answer 11

marry whoever u love :)

Answer 12

Same here brother, after I saw the people in this section do nothing when people insult Arabs...

Answer 13

Race should not be the deciding factor, her character and religion is all that counts.  

Answer 14

Good answer by Salman.

just pray that you marry the right person, a good muslim ~!

Answer 15

I think you should marry a Turkish girl. Maybe that way, your misconceptions of Turkish people can be cleared, Faisal.

Lol.

Answer 16

Its your life, you have free choice, marry who YOU want,  

Answer 17

i agree with sina.

Answer 18

dude marry a Good Muslim girl regardless her race nationality

and marry who you wants

racism is bad thing  and sure you can't marry a racist against Arabs because she won't marry you in first place if she hates Arabs

racism/Nationalism could be between Arabs themselves.

and lol do you really care about what happened from few guys and may be 2 with multi accounts !

i defended Arabs  even tho I'm not Arab.

Answer 19

are you sure your not g*y too?

Answer 20

FIND JESUS IN UR HEART

Answer 21

Leave the Arabness and become a Muslim first.

Answer 22

Marry within your faith.  Mixed religious marriages are more difficult to maintain than than marriages between persons of the same faith; you both might wind up very unhappy if your Christian, or Hindu, or Jewish,etc spouse is found to be faithless or resists your muslim beliefs and customs.  Only one thing: DON"T marry someone your parents pick for you; marry someone YOU lave and loves YOU, too.

Good luck.

J

Answer 23

go with your heart..i'm an arab and i think i would never marry a non arab guy... :)  i think it just going to be harder to understand or get along with non-arab muslim than a arabic muslim

Answer 24

An Arab is not better then an Ajam, and an Ajam is not better then an Arab but better just by Takwaa!!

As muslim you shouldn't check the race!!

where ever you feel good, get married up there!!

Answer 25

Marry half chineese half arab

Answer 26

i have to marry an arab too :[

errrrrrrr...

marry whoever you want, just dont forget yur religon.  

Answer 27

who do you love? get to know a few girls then marry the one you think is best for you. It's important to find the right girl so you dont regret anything in life. DO WHAT YOU THINK IS RIGHT! :)♥

Answer 28

any thing you do which makes you forget your Salat is not a good

deed. that doesnt mean music is haram or playing musical instrument

is haram,if one is too busy with his/her kids and forget to pray

salat,does it mean having children is haram !

or if you are too busy in cooking,does it mean cooking is haram ?

just dont forget to remember Allah Allmighty..!i

Answer 29

lol, you should just marry an Arab girl. Preserve our Arabian identity.  

Answer 30

I'm an arab,and I think it doesn't matter what nationality u marry,neither does wut religion u marry,all that matters is that u love her and that u r willing to stick with her no matter what happens.

gd luck!

x*x

Answer 31

Marry an Arab.