I cannot stand school...?

Question

i just hate the people there. the rest is great. my school is full of jerks and fakes.

i have been betrayed by my friend last year who took away one of my really good friends. like their nice to my face but make of fun me behind my back. i cant stand them. i dont know how to let them not get to me.

help?

im so scared of the new school year. i cant stop worrying.

Answer 1

ive been to many school in my life and ive felt like that too. it may seem like everyone is a jerk or fake but there are good people in every school. just be carefull who you trust but dont be like a loner. about not letting them get to you, just think either that their prob. making fun of you cuz there insecure of there ownselvess, or they have nothing better to do then pick on people. just try hard not to let them get to and make sure they know that. if they know it bothers you they'll just keep doing it. i wish you the best of luck!

Answer 2

Been there done that.

honestly you cant really get away from it but best way to deal with it is

- keep being nice to them, dont talk bad bout them

- be the bigger person in those situations

- make friends with other people in different grades

- dont pay a ton of attention to the 2faced girls when they talk to u

- and if they ask why your acting like that just simply say "your not fooling me with your 2faced ways"

OH AND MOST OF ALL.

- make friends with GUYS. theyre fun to hang out with and theres barely anyy drama. =]

good luck!!

Answer 3

I definitely understand why you would be worried but I think you should ask yourself what worrying has accomplished

Instead of worrying, do something about it

find new friends, join clubs, sit next to the new kids in your classes, talk more to people you barely know

you'll fina a way

don't worry about the jerks in your school, they don't get to decide how your school year turns out. Just remember that in 20 years from now, they won't matter

so they shouldn't matter now

go back to school with a new style

get a new haircut, change up your clothes, experiment with different makeup, anything to show that there's a new you this year and this new you is someone worth getting to know

Have fun at school. learn a lot, get motivated, be inspired, dream big

the sky's the limit!

have fun in school!

Answer 4

plan something like t*t for tat

Answer 5

School is horrible.  I used to be bullied and backstabbed.  That was a long time ago.

Stick it out, it won't last forever..

Your education is extremely important to the rest of your life.  It's hard to not let those sort of people get you down, but you have to start learning about them.

As an adult, it doesn't get any better.  When people get older, they just get better at hiding it and getting away with it.

Stay true to yourself and be a good person.

Don't change yourself because of them.

You'll be a winner in the end.

Answer 6

i know what your going through, but i learned if someone you call a friend does that, then they aren't a real friend. you Can make new ones no matter if they are older then you or younger, age shouldn't matter. like most of my friends are older then me now. but its life you just have to learn to deal with it, because nothing in life is easy.

Answer 7

if you can't defeat your enemies, join them

Answer 8

I hated school. HATED HATED HATED junior high and high school.

What you have to keep in the front of your mind is this is like an obstacle course you simple have to finish. Do whatever you can to overcome the bad, sad, nasty others in your way - and make it to the end. Those other people really don't matter. YOU matter.

One way to do this is to find an afterschool activity you love. Art, music, writing, sports, dance, reading, volunteerism - it doesn't matter what. But you need to have something good in your life that you look forward to and enjoy - this will help you get through the days. Make this your passion!

I tried so hard to drop out in 10th grade. I used drugs, ran away, was suicidal - I am so glad I didn't cave.

I am an educated, well-read, wonderful person  who contributes to my family and my community - and I would not be this person if I had given up in school because people didn't like me, they looked down on me, they spread rumors about me. My revenge is now living well and never ever looking back.

Yoiu can do this. In the grand scheme of things this time doesn't matter except for the knowledge you will gain in the pursuit. The people don't matter. YOU matter.

This time will be gone in the blink of an eye and you can burn the yearsbooks later. Ha ha ha.

Be strong. Don't give up.

Answer 9

That's basically how I am. Everyone tries to be someone they're not and frankly I am quite sick of it. I have one real friend and it's a guy, and he is the only one that isn't fake but I think that's cuz he's a guy.

Answer 10

I'm 13 and had the worries of moving to high school. you change from being the oldest at primary school to the youngest at high school and it can be really scary. but its fine! everyone will tell you its fine starting a new school, most people dread it but it really isn't as scary as most people like to make out. It might take a day or two to get used to it but that's it! As for the friends I'm sorry to hear that. ive had some friends like that over the years but i realized who were my real friends and who weren't. and which ones were worth being my mates and which ones went. just think of your new school, as a new beginning!

good look, and dont worry to much!