I cant get motivated to organise...?

Question

ok so my wedding was meant to be next aug but 2 weeks ago i found out im expecting so we brought wedding forward we both wanted to do this. now i feel so tired and grim i just cant get motivated to start plans its in 5 weeks please i need some help suggestions on how to get motivated again

Answer 1

Babies are wonderful blessings!  Congrats to you and your fiance.

And yes, it is normal to feel very tired at first.  You will feel better after the first trimester.  If at all possible, schedule the wedding for sometime in your second trimester.

Be sure to take all the vitamins and iron pills the doctor gives you.

My suggestion?  Go look at the Knot.  Check out their wedding checklist and budget calculator.  

http://wedding.theknot.com/default.aspx?...

You may not want or need everything mentioned at the Knot, but it is a good place to start.  

Good luck to you!

Answer 2

Just make the wedding very very small. Get your marriage license, make a date at the courthouse, and invite your parents, siblings, and extremely close friends only. Then go buy a nice outfit, and pick out some wedding bands with your fiance. Then make a restaurant reservation for after the ceremony, and you're done! If you keep things simple, they won't be so scary.  

Answer 3

5 weeks isn't alot of time at all! since you are expecting why not get a friend or wedding coordinator to help you.  

Depending on how detailed your wishes are you might consider getting a wedding package if possible.

sometimes florists, caterers and event locations have an all inclusive package you could choose from and will work with each other thus taking a lot of the burden off of you.