I cant help teasing my bf, not s*x-wise...? ?

Question

im so mean, i dont mean to do it, like it just comes out like he said "oh am i just convenient to you?" so i said "you arent that convenient" and he said "am i just a pretty face to you?" so i said "ur not that pretty" how can i be more sensitive? im teasing meaning hes not just a pretty face or convenient, by saying hes neither, but it comes out wrong... should he be offended or am i making my point, albeit kind of in a rather coarse way?

he also asks if im using him for s*x and i tease and say no, im using him for something else, lord knows what i just choose something at random, its not money or anything as he doesnt have any.. i do enjoy being with him hes really sweet i mean if i didnt hed have been kicked to the curb by now..

im only teasing but i cant seem to help coming out with these onliners?? or have i just gotten too cynical in my old age?

Answer 1

i knew a girl who did exactly this to me, i was alright with it for a fair bit of time but eventually it can get annoying - especially if you do it in front of other people

i would never have called us a couple, more just really 'close' friends but she refused to ever admit more, she put it down to not wanting commitment, as soon as i got a gf she starting coming on to me again and i eventually broke up with my gf with the hope that she had grown up...

didn't happen, now i've lost all my enthusiasm for her.

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Doesn't directly answer your question, just an example of how he may be feeling

Answer 2

You just need a good spanking

: )