I cant make myself get a good orgasam!!?

Question

i heard all these things to get a orgasam i just cant get one i get one!! any ideas? i want to know how it feels!! i finger myself it doesnt work i play with my "g" spot it doesnt work i stop once i have my finger in at least 10 times but i dont feel nothing!!!! no even when i had s*x the first time is there something wrong?

Answer 1

have you tried watching some blue movie. its easier if you are turned on

Answer 2

Doing it "manually" can take forever and it can be so exhausting you cant get off. Try getting a vibrator or even try running a bath and positioning yourself underneath it.

Rarely can I get one when I have intercourse unless there is friction to my C**t (outside).

Good Luck and have fun!

Answer 3

DO Wat The other girls say

Answer 4

Have you tried with a massage shower head? Maybe you are not patient enough? Some women can take up to 40 min or stimulation before they can reach an o****m. Not everyone is lucky enough to o****m from masturbation in just 5 min (or even less).

Also, some women seem to absolutely need a vibrator, that's just the way it is. So if anything, try buying yourself a rabbit styled vibrator, it should do the trick.

Answer 5

the key to an o****m is the clitoris.your talking about fingering and stuff try rubbing-stimulating-massaging the C**t.it feels amazing.

Answer 6

go invest in a vibrator and experiment with that. Also, you have to RELAX and be PATIENT. If you don't do those two things, you won't o****m, period. Simple as that. Just relax, take your time, lots and lots of time, and have fun. Maybe try some KY lube with the warm sensations or whatever =p And it's not going to happen if you're thinking about taxes and lunch dates you've forgotten. So remember, think of things that turn you on, take your time (lots of time) and be patient, and most of all, relax. Hope this helps you and good luck! I'm root'n for ya =]

p.s. I must say from experience, orgasms are definitely worth the patience/time. So like I said, good luck and have fun.

Answer 7

When I first began masturbating I thought it was all about putting something inside you to simulate a p***s.  I tried a couple of things but it just hurt and there was no pleasure at all, I was confused.  Then I found out about the clitoris. It will be the source of most, if not all of your orgasms.  Some women can o****m thru penetration alone but it's not common.

Dip a couple of fingers into a little bit of oil (baby oil, veggie oil, whatever) and start gently rubbing yourself.  Your clitoris is right at the top of your p***y.  It's just a little button.  If it hurts at first don't rub right on it, just rub around it then as you go try rubbing it again.  Experiment and see what feels best to you.  Once you've been doing it a bit your body will start to produce natural lubricant in your v****a.  You can slide your a finger or two up inside yourself to get more lubrication on them.  Go back and forth, learn how you like to be touched so you can tell the future man in your life.  

To o****m during penetration with your man you need to find a position in which you can get clitoral stimulation while he's inside you.  It's tricky but possible.  

Here are a couple of safe sites for you to read about your lady parts.

http://health.discovery.com/centers/s*x/...

http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2005/if-...

This is a good picture cause you can click on different parts to see what they are and compare them to what you see on yourself.  

http://www.teenwire.com/interactive/diag...