I cant move on after their death...

Question

Someone close to me died four months ago,& although sometimes it's easier,other times the pain is so unbearable i feel like i can't breathe.when i do start to feel happier or that things are moving forward,i realise it's like im starting a new chapter of my life without this person ive lived with everyday and i just dont want to...i dont want to be leaving them behind..can anyone else relate to this...?

Answer 1

Recently, i have lost two family members.
What i have learned by deaths of family and friends is that you cant do anything about it. all you have to do is look at all of the happy things in life and look more to the future than the past. im not saying forget them because they will always be in your mind and your heart.
Getting over death is the hardest thing anyone will ever have to do.
if you think you will be with them one day that can also help. you know this person will be watching over you, looking after you, look to the future and remember to make as many memories with people as possible! because you never know when they will go...
i hope i helped and i am awfully sorry for your loss