I cant stand my mom?

Question

my mom puts so much pressure on me because our dad isnt around and she says "mikayla you can talk to me about anything and i'll listen" so i talk to her about this girl that was being mean to me and bullying me and she got mad at me for talking about my problems becaus ei was putting her in a bad mood. teh only time shes nice to me is when she wants something and she gets mad if i ask her whats for dinner and says shes not a maid. i am 13 years old and i have a 2 and 10 year old sister and a 7 year old brother who she makes me babysit. she pays me but still makes me babysit even if i say no. i cant live with my dad becasue he works full time from monday to saterday he drives a logging truck. he is single so i cant even stay with his girlfriend and its to long for me to stay home alone. what should i do i cant live like this anymore i hate my mom and i dont want to live with her. i thought about doing bad things to get into foster care and i might do that.

Answer 1

i know it can be frustrating but we cant pick our family why dont you talk to your mom and tell her that you really cant stand her being mean to you and if she wont listen ask her if you can move in with a relative or a family friend for a while and once your gone your mother might realize how much she really loves you

Answer 2

That sounds like me, um i think foster care would be worse...~xoxo ally*

Answer 3

dont go into foster care D:

it can be much worse.

Answer 4

If you hate your mom you will definitely hate your foster mother most of them don't care and are just in it for the money.... not a good idea

maybe you can stay with you dad during the school year most of the time he's at work you'll be at school especially if you are in after school programs. so you won't be home alone. You may have to go to your mom during the summer but three months is better than all the time.

Maybe you have another family member you can stay with.

Don't hate your mother. She's only human and after all she did bring you into this world. I understand what you are saying me and my mom couldn't live together, I moved with my grandma when I was 12, but I've learned from experience that when you have no one else you have mom, so don't burn that bridge.

Answer 5

Find help in some other adult person. What she does is called emotional abuse. Talk to a teacher, talk to the parents of one of your friends, please just seek help in the adults around you. Don't try doing bad things, it may help you for the moment but it will be very bad on the long run and it will get you to lose credibility in front of other adult people who could help you.

Answer 6

well dont do bad things cause thats just gonna hurt you the most... your mom hun shes trying but i say since your the oldest try to talk to her ask her how her day was an she might losen up on u . u have to remember she is also raising yor brother and sister give her time just dont s***w up your life to get away u know u love her

Answer 7

That's tough...

Show her your posting. Can u send it to her?

Acting out is only going to keep her from taking you seriously.

It'll get ugly, but you have to make her listen! Talk, scream, whatever you have to do (no violence) but hold your ground!

Don't stop until she really hears you!

Good luck!

Answer 8

just pull through. once your eighteen get the heck outta there. just consider yourselves lucky you have a mother. a bad mother is better than none.