I cant stop thinking about my girlfriends sister! what shall i do??

Question

I have been with my gf for five years, we are both 19 and have a two year old daughter. I love my gf to bits but for the past few months I have been really attracted to her younger sister and I cant stop thinking about her, she comes round our house and sometimes I just cant help staring at her and everything she says just seems to wow me. She is 17 and looks exactly like my gf. They are both really attractive girls. I want it to stop, I am really happy with my gf but I just cant get her out of my head. She sometimes stays round with her bf and sometimes I just get the feeling I really want to smack him and it makes me angry inside that he is touching her. What is wrong with me?? It is driving me mad. I thought maybe it was just a brotherly kind of thing as I have known her since she was 12 but I cant kid myself anymore, I think about her in a sexual way.

Answer 1

Hi, if i were in your position i'd really look at your relationhip - do you feel bored or fed up with the physical side of your relationship? If so, this may explain why you are looking at someone who is so similar to your gf but seems to be outgoing and fun. Maybe you could 'try new things' with your gf, as you might just have a crush on her sister. Good luck with everything.  

Answer 2

Jesus..you need to smack out of it! If you truly loved your girlfriend & daughter you would try your hardest to stop these feelings. Whenever you see her just think to yourself 'SNAP OUT OF IT' unless you want to lose your girlfriend & your own little daughter.  

Answer 3

WAT YOU DO IS NOT SAY A WORD CAUSE THE SISTER MAY NOT FEEL THE SAME WAY BOUT YOU AND YOU DNT WANT TO MESS UP WAT YOU AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND HAVE FOR SOMETHING THAT WNT NEVER BE CAUSE YOU GO AND SAY SOMETHING AND SHE BLOWS YOU OFF AND THEN TURNS AROUND AND TELLS HER SISTER AND THEN GUESS WAT HAPPENS YOU LOSE HER TO SO KEEP YOUR MOUTH SHUT UNTILL THE TIME IS RIGHT THERES A PLACE AND TIME FOR ERRYTHING JUST WAIT

Answer 4

not just me then?

Answer 5

Alright, first of all, don't even ever think about pursuing that girl. just .. no.

Quite honestly, I think you need to spend a lot of time away from your gf's sister, realize that she is in a relationship, and that you have NO chance with her. You have a daughter! You need to grow up a little bit and think about the consequences of your actions. Granted, being attracted to someone is a hard thing to break sometime. But the more you think about it, the more you'll want to think about it, just spend more time with your gf, and do something new and exciting to get your mind off her sister. Also, consider the fact that if you did ever pursue her sister, she would be so hurt, like unbelievably hurt. It's just wrong mann. I mean, if you didn't have a daughter, it would still be wrong, but you practically made a commitment to her, that you can't break. Get a hold of yourself and realize that you have a responsibility to your gf.  

Answer 6

suck it up buttercup. you can't have her.

think about your daughter for God's sake...

Answer 7

give her a go, get it out of your system haha

no...seriously dont

Answer 8

If you cannot control your feelings it suggests a level of immaturity that you need to work on.

In the meantime, you CAN control your actions.    So do so.

Answer 9

Don't go there you'll lose everything.  Including your child .

Answer 10

Grow up. Take responsibility for your thought life. Bounce your eyes and your thoughts.