I cant take being pushed around anymore...?

Question

ive asked questions like this before, but the answeres were cruel and hurtful so ive decided to word things differently.

now youd think that since ive lost 5 family members that were extremely close to me i would be a strong person. but im not. and even though im still in grief, the people in my school [grade eight] never fail to try to make things worse... they just do things that really make life suck... the kind of stuff where you just want to go in your room and never come out. i used to be best friends with these 2 girls, but they were constantly insulting the way i look and they caused me lack of self esteem... so i stopped hanging out with them. i gave them the reasons why, and they continued being mean to me but WORSE. now its nonstop mean notes in my locker and dirty looks, and today they crossed the line.

there was a picture of the three of us and they could have just cut me out. but they decided to punch and scribble on the picture, than to put a big piece of ducktape over my face and left it where they knew i could see it...

i dont know what to do i cant switch schools for family reasons theres no school counsalor i cant go a therapist for money reasons...

i cant take it anymore

Answer 1

aw. I'm soo sorry about what's happening to you! My days are like that too, so do me a favor: listen to what I'm about to say. you can always talk to your teachers, your principle, or your parents about what's happening at school. try these pages to see if they work for you. good luck kiddo!

http://www.wikihow.com/Deal-With-Frienem...

http://www.wikihow.com/Have-Fun-Without-...

http://www.wikihow.com/Cope-With-the-Los...

Good luck again.

Ta ta,

C.R.

Answer 2

I'm terribly, terribly sorry!  I know it hurts like heck, but you've got to act like it doesn't bother you that much in front of them. Seeing your pain gives them glory.

If you don't think you can talk it out with them, then you need to talk to your closest family member about it. A motherly or fatherly figure will have the best advice. Try and find new friends. Having a big circle of friends means you have a lot of people to lean on when a couple girls get mad at you. Having others stand up for you will feel great and give you that self esteem you lost.

And most importantly, if you are Christian, praying about this will help tremendously, I promise you.

You can also get a diary and write all your anger, sadness, and other emotions out. I know in 8th grade having a diary could sound lame, but it'll help just to let everything out if you don't have a real person to let it out to.

Best of luck to you!

Answer 3

I would like to know what is is you look like but the person that can change that is you and only if you feel you need to. Next time they decide to tease and poke fun at you is to tell them, "You know I really feel sorry for you that your kind of entertainment must come from me when the real issue here seems to be within yourself." Then let it go. I know it is hard to pray for your enemies but we all wrestle with principalities and not flesh. Those girls do not like themselves too much now do they? I would tell them that. Tell them that you still care for them and then walk away from them.