I cant tell if she is still interested in me!!?

Question

met this girl (we are both 23) about 2 months ago. i would run into her every sat night out on the town and every week we would have a dance and a kiss at the end of the night. then after one week we went back to her place and had s*x. this happeneda couple more times. all through this time she would text me and ask how i was and we would go out for drinks about twice a week. but over the last 3 weeks or so she has been very distant, almost as if she ddoesn'tlike me anymore. she has had a few bad relationships in the past so ddon'tknow if that has something to do with it. whenever i text her now she gives the simplest responce possible and always is to busy to meet me. and when i rang her and told her that i really like her and that it would be nice to see if we can make a go of things she just said thanks and asked if i expected a responce from it. then all she said was we will see what happens! anyone been there before? any advice on what to do would be much appreciated!

Answer 1

guess she just needed s*x during that period of time

Answer 2

She found someone new.

Answer 3

It sounds as though she has moved on, it may have been that you did interest her but something has happened, the excuses just seem to be that...

although i could be completely wrong and she really does like you but things have been happening? doubt it though

sorry...

Answer 4

I'm only 17, so I understand if you don't take my answer to heart, but my best guess would be that she's got somebody else, and before making any rash decisions, she wants to know who she likes more. I'm guessing she's also probably under a lot of stress, and this on top of it is just adding to the weight. I would just leave it alone, still be there for her, let her text you, let her come to you. If you stop being there for her on your own, she'll realize she's starting to lose track of you. Then she'll pull tight on the leash she thinks she has, and start talking to you.  

Answer 5

Why don't you ask her if she's having any problems & if she needs to talk to you about it. If she really is facing a problem and you calling her up telling her you like her, bla bla bla, she thinks you only like her for s*x. But if she does not hv any problems, then just leave her alone. She's obviously not interested.

Answer 6

I got your back, bro. I guarantee this will work.

Call her. If she answers, have a breezy five minute conversation about nothing in particular--her day, class, work, what she's got planned for the week...etc. While doing so, don't pose a question that needs detailed answers. In other words, don't make it seem like you're keeping tabs or that you're about to try and wiggle some you-time in there anywhere. The whole point here is just to get in and out quick and not make her feel threatened. NOTE, if you can't get her on the phone, just text and wait for one of those short responses you were talking about.

Next, don't call or text her for any reason about anything. Make her call you. If she actually does call you, don't answer. If she texts you, do not respond to the first one. Wait for a second then send her one of those short ones; give her a taste of her business. Then keep on with that process til she calls you out on it. And she will.

See, girls do not like that. They are the queens of 'do not do unto me, as I do unto you.' This whole turn around will confuse her and put you in the driver's seat. She won't be able to stand not being in control, but she'll not be able to stand not having your attention even worse.

Once you feel comfortable and that you are running the show, just bust her out--ask her straight up if she likes you or not. If she does then you're all set. If not, shrug it off and act like you could care less. Act like it was as if you went into the store and asked the guy behind the counter if he knows where blah blah blah avenue is and he says no. Thanks anyway.  You can start looking elsewhere. Plus you'll still probably be able to hit it somemore anyway because girls can't stand to have a guy react like that.

Answer 7

I would continue to communicate with her if you really do like her but I would also start keeping my options open for other women. This will keep you busy while you wait for her next move. It also shows her that your not wooped by her. If you are single then play the field with other singles. If it was meant to be; you will know it if she starts texting or calling you alot more. Remember, women solve women problems and who knows you might find something better out there also.

Answer 8

you can't until he tells you by himself.