I caught my (adopted) daughter french kissing her boyfriend. WTF do I do?

Question

She's 6 if it matters.

Answer 1

she's just experimenting.  She's not doing any harm.  Maybe tell her it's for adults only and if she asks explain why.  But it's really not uncommon at that age to try stuff they've seen mommy and daddy or people on tv doing.

Don't worry too much.

Answer 2

She's gonna be a good kisser.

d**n i didnt french till i was 15

better tell her about them cooties

Answer 3

normally i would say just let it happen...cause it will especially in Jr High n High School but 6 years old is a little young. and if the guy is over 18...call the cops hah

Answer 4

thats weird.

Answer 5

You have to explain to her that what she's doing is very wrong.

Answer 6

say its not a good thing to do right now, wait till ur older but why does a 6 year old have a bf? hows that possible

Answer 7

well do you frinch your husband she may think its ok

tell his parents

tell her about the birds and the bees she may be ready to hear it then that should do the trick scare her strate

Answer 8

you should tell her nicely that she should save that for when shes older but dont let her be mad at you... tell her that u like that she has  a boyfriend

Answer 9

SHE'S 6!oh man tell her to stop!

Answer 10

6 is really young! You need to talk to her about responsibilty and consequences.  Tell her that you care about her and that is why you are confronting her.  Probably want to talk about STDs.

Answer 11

Talk to her make sure she is aware of things How old is the guy? tell his parentsf he is more than 10 call the cops

Answer 12

You should gently tell her not to do that sort of thing.

And why does she have a "boyfriend" when she's only 6 years old!?

Answer 13

i would talk to her and tell her that it is wrong at that age because 6 is very young

maybe try to tell her boys have cooties :)

Answer 14

omgg. u should tell her in a nice way though thats its not right.

Answer 15

6 year olds experiment and mimic adults. If you make a big deal out of it, it will become a big deal. Talk to her like she is a 6 year old - "That's for Mommy's and Daddy's" Talking to her like she's a 16 year old is not talking age appropriate talk. Why would you even want to go there? Sounds to me like you are creating a problem where one does not really exist.

And what does being adopted have to do with anything??

Answer 16

tell her its not apporiate age

and explain the age that you will allow her to do certain things.

Answer 17

its okayy. like all little kids do this. no big deal. ask her about it.

Answer 18

Tell her in a not yelling way that it is not appropriate for a young girl her age to be doing that. And where did she learn how to french kiss? I still havent had my official first kiss yet!