I caught my six year old son and six year old nephew humping each other more than once. What do I do?

Question

I am worried........what do I do?

Answer 1

my nephews do it to they are 3 and 4

don't let them out of your sight and yell at them when they do it

keep them apart when you can't have your eye on them all the time

do they take their clothes off? my nephews do and get under a blanket for privacy

Answer 2

ask them where they learned it from and why they would do it

Answer 3

talk to you son, ask why he was doing it.  It could ahve been his idea or your nephews.  Maybe it was soemthing they say or just joking around.  Get to to bottom of it before you get worried.

Answer 4

Well, you probably need to sit down with each one at different times and then together. Ask them who told them how to do it and tell them that information will be out of their life, completely. (Do not tell them that it may come along later in life). Then ask them why they did it a second time. They will probably say it felt good or something and tell them that that will never ever happen again (emphasize key words) or somebody will get a big spanking. A BIG SPANKING. Just explain to them why it's wrong in a G Rated conversation. Then send them away from each other and at meals put their chairs away from each other. Good thing you don't live together! Hope this Helps!

Answer 5

this is actually perfectly normal for them to want to do these things. but they shouldnt with family. (unless they are naked)]

all you should do is tell them what they are doin is wrong (although dont embarress them too much!) tell them they have to do those things with girls when they are older than 20! lol

just talk to them aking were they learnt it from and say u can go to jail or somthing bad if they do it again!

but keep ur cool!

Answer 6

well if he is g*y he is g*y nothing to do about it

Answer 7

"Humping each other?"  Playing doctor (masturbating) with each other isn't unusual at any age, "humping" at 6 is.  I wonder where they learned to do that.  Since they don't have s*x drives at that age, it's not likely that they discovered this particular behavior on their own.  It is harmless, if inappropriate.  I'd try to get them to do other things (6 year olds are easily distracted), but wouldn't worry about it, except for the part about where they learned to do it.

Answer 8

Do not make a big deal out of it to them.  Calmly sit them down and explain to them why it is inappropriate behavior.  Speak to your nephew's parents about what is happening.   I think it's pretty normal and common...but it needs to be addressed immediately.  Until you feel comfy that they understand, keep a close eye out when they're together.

Answer 9

i know it sounds weird, but they've probably discovered things touching and rubbing their area feels good. i'm sure they mean no harm! just calmly sit down and explain that we don't do that behavior!

Answer 10

just don't over react...that'll scar them worse than when they get older & you remind them about humping each other when they were kids. Just let them know the feelings are natural, after making sure no one taught them this behavior. Explain that it's ok to touch yourself in private but not someone else at this age. Telling them that this behavior is "bad" will only lead them to believe they are "bad". Good Luck!

Answer 11

This is normal behavior for that age, but it is disturbing. Mine did it too then. Sounds like they are best friends. Just explain that good friends don't play with each other like that, it's not what good boys do. Don't over react. They do not know what that really means at that age, and they are the same age. It just feels good and looks silly. Tell them that cousins can love each other by giving hugs and cousins need to play together like good boys, not like animals. Animals usually takes the sexual connotation out of it and gets the point across without too many questions.

Answer 12

Oh my! Talk to one of them at a time. See why they were doing this and tell them to never do this again or to tell people they were. I hope this helped.

-Tara

Answer 13

They are related and they need to stop this nonsense....separate them and talk to them both.

Answer 14

This has nothing to do with being g*y. Sexual behavior like that usually means one or both of them witnessed some adult sexual behavior they shouldn't have. Perhaps one of them saw an inappropriate movie or tv show or --god forbid-- was inappropriately touched by an adult or another sexually abused child in school who learned the behavior from an aggressor. After you explain that this behavior is wrong, if you see it again, I would take your child to a therapist that specializes in talking to children and see if they can get to the bottom of it. Good luck.