I cheated on my husband and now i feel sooo bad. i did it only because he did it to me first but now i feel ?

Question

bad. the guy i cheated with is a guy i meet awhile ago. i told my husband i was going work out and i did but not At the gym? why do i feel so bad when he did it first? the guy was way better than my husband and bigger if you know what i mean now i cant stop thinking about him and i feel bad why?

Answer 1

Have you ever heard two wrongs don't make it right! You should be ashamed. theres this little thing called karma that would of taken care of this problem instead you brought fuel to the fire

Answer 2

Two wrongs do not take a right. Just because he did it, doesn't mean you should.  Your acting like a child here no offense. If you two are cheating on each other, you should either get counseling or get divorced.

Answer 3

if he cheated and now you have i can't see this relationship going anywhere . If you had genuinely forgiven him for doing it and he was genuinely sorry for doing it you might have had a chance but not now. give it up and tell him cause it will only fester in your mind and eventually drive you nuts (not to mention it is deceitful). If you are only concerned with how good it was and how much bigger it was I can tell you now that you are not in Love with your husband but are only in love with the idea of being in love with him...

You both need to start new lives because relationships do not last without trust

Answer 4

You feel bad because you lied.  Maybe because you had been planning this and you feel sneaky.  I understand how you feel, and why you did it.  This may not be a popular answer, but if you love your husband and want to stay with him - don't say anything.  If you want to be with this other guy and he feels the same then you need to make a choice.  If there are kids involved it will be more difficult, but living a double life is not good for you or anyone.  You do need to think about whether you have something else with this other guy, or if it's just good s*x.  

Answer 5

forget about it;-)

Answer 6

That just made the problem worse it's still bad. Two wrongs do not make a right you should just tell each other the truth and if you both have any problems with it then you should both just take a break from the guilt and stress and then talk things over.

Answer 7

You're stupid.

Answer 8

Your a s**t!

Answer 9

Why did you two even marry?  

Answer 10

Stop playing around and learn to act like an adult. Your marriage either means something to you or it doesn't. Sounds like both of you are too immature to handle the responsibility and sacrifice that comes with marriage.

Answer 11

What is wrong with you and your husband.

You're married....that's supposed to mean you don't have s*x with other people.

You either really deserve each other......or you should get a divorce.

Answer 12

The phrase "two wrongs don't make a right" immediately came to mind.

Why do you feel bad? Because you cheated!! Geesh.

Btw, you both need to be tested for STDs.

Answer 13

Regardless of whether your husband did it first or not you probably crossed a moral and emotional line that you yourself didn't believe was right. You are fighting with your own conscience. It also depends on why you did it. Did you really like this guy and really want to be with him but only your marriage vow held you back before?? or was this a spite f**k. Because that will only leave you feeling empty afterwards. And the original cheater will NEVER understand your pain even if you tell him you cheated. Because ultimately it absolves him of his guilt and actually makes he feel better. He also will not deal with the most important pain...the betrayal and lies and deception, because you came out and told him. If I were you I wouldn't tell him anything. I would put it away in a very safe place in your mind and leave it there. What's done is done. You can feel some how vindicated. Try and forgive yourself and move on. Also stay away from this guy so you don't have to keep opening the wound. If you continue to see him remember this will get very complicated and possibly destroy the marriage you are trying to save. Good luck.  

Answer 14

it's ur consicious

u feel guilty cause you still have true love for ur husband

Answer 15

They sell up to 15" d****s nowadays, HELLO!

I say go f*ck him, Oh, you did that?

I say go f*ck yourself, Oh, you did that?

I say go f*ck someone else, Oh, you did that?

I say....there's always a Congressman needing a good f*ck to F*ck things up!

Yep, that's it, you f*ck up everything else in your life, now go get the Congressman!

Yippee, another problem solved!

Answer 16

You should feel bad. Even though your husband broke his vow to be faithful to you forever, that does not give you the right to do it back. You should have never stooped to his level. You both need to sit down and really think about what is going on. Personally, sounds like a divorce is in your near future. The damage can never be repaired. The trust is gone...forever.  

Answer 17

OMg

Your married you not suppose to do other men

Wow not only God mad at you

but KARMA has to be bad

Answer 18

Bad.. That just made thing's worse.

Answer 19

because 2 wrongs don't make a right.  Now you are just as bad of a person as your husband is.  Good job.  

Answer 20

you feel bad because you know it was wrong no matter who did it first,you most likely did it thinking it would give you some kind of satisfaction in a sense of getting even,The only way to really get over the guilty feeling is to confess to your husband as to what you did,or just give it time and that guilty feeling will ease but you will always worry about him finding out.and as far as not being able to get this other guy out of your mind it might take awhile to,because he is new and exciting,that too will pass unless you keep the affair up,and my advice is if you are going to keep it up then tell your husband its only fair to him but be kind and don't do it out of anger.remember how it felt when it was done to you. Truly happy people don't cheat people don't cheat just based on someone looking better people tend to cheat because something is missing in their relationships,so if you don't want to be the cheater or be getting cheated on find out what you both re missing from each other and work on fixing that.Or work on going your separate ways nothing good comes out of it. good luck!

Answer 21

WoW, you are doomed!