I cheated on my man and broke his trust. Should I still have any hopes of us getting back together?

Question

I got too doped up at work I was a stripper and a guy took me home and it happened. once he found out it all went downhill, of course, but he knows it was just a mistake that I never meant to make. He should know that I love him. We still talk and hang out but its not the same. He tells me we will always have something special there always and that he will always care for me. It has been 3 months ago and my birthday is Aug 11, I will be 21. He is 32. But I feel like we were meant to always share something no matter what.

Answer 1

Maybe you did then, but its gone now, with his trust.

If he was a good man, unfortunately, he wouldn't take you back. A good man needs a woman who is genuine, honest, has integrity, and high self-esteem and is trustworthy. Just accept that you mucked this one up and these are the consequences.

Clean yourself up now, learn from your mistake, accept that what you did resulted in you loosing him.  Develop some integrity and a stronger moral fiber. Don't do it ever again.

With hard work, you might be worthy of the next good man's love that comes into your life.

The choices you make can end up costing you the most important things in your life. Know what are the good choices and bad choices before you make them.



Good Luck!

Answer 2

Stripping throws you into a rough situation. You say you made a mistake(which you did) but to him it was more. You hurt him and making that better is all too often impossible. Of course you will always share something with him, and it takes a lot of a person to even face you after something like that. My suggestion to you? Take the friendship in strides and build it. If he is willing to build with you than its work your hardest to make it better. If not, it is time to move on.

Answer 3

He should date someone more mature and closer in age and someone not on drugs

Regardless doped up or not usually you have to want to cheat to do it. Doped up is a cop out and we both know that

Answer 4

Let me start by saying that no matter what caused you to do this it will always be hard for him to trust you. You may want to take a long look at your self and ask yourself if you would trust any one if it were you? Good luck in all you do and may god bless you!

Answer 5

No.

Stop doing drugs.