I could care less but?

Question

Ok,so I got in a fist fight today,not with a girl a guy.It got pretty rough and we both did equally bad damage to eachother.It was with my best friends ex boyfriend.Me and my friend were walking around the mall and then he comes up to my friend and is just being real immature.So I told him just leave her alone.and it was 3 hours later and still no bothering so then we go outside and were just sitting there and then the guy comes over and he starts kinda getting touchy with my friend,she pushed him away from her but he went back so I got up and told him to back off and told him keep his hands off her,so he was like "ok anything for you babe" so he puts his arm around me so I punch him and tell him he can't touch me or my friend.So he's laughing so he does it again so then I punch him in the gut and then he's on the floor and from there well it became a big fight.I had the last punch and finished him off and then we walked away.

so I come home and my grandparents were flipping out,since my face is just a bit busted up with a cut and a bruise on my cheek.I told them the story they understood cause they hated this guy as much as I and my best friend did,so they understood but they keep telling that they want to talk to this kids mom and I could care less he's gonna leave us alone after this.But they want to tell his mother everything thats been going on but im sure he did but put himself as the victim and I could honestly care less but my grandparents are flipping out.

should they really be this concerned? what happened,happened it's over now so it's just whatever in my eyes

also im 14,and he's 17

Answer 1

yes let them tell his parents it will make him look bad..and stupid and weak..because he got beat up by a girl thats way younger..im very proud of you..my first fight ever was with a boy too..

dont worry to much about it its nothing its fine

Answer 2

I'm pretty sure he can go to jail for hitting you...

Anyways I'm pretty sure they should be concerned if hes hitting you, and bugging you like that.

Answer 3

i'd be telling his parents too because the day i become a parent i sincerely would hope someone would tell me if my kid didnt behave so i had a chanse to corect it. Some parents just dont care, some fall for lies, but some actualy dont know and wish someone had told them sooner when they do find out.

Answer 4

i dont think its their biz

its your life, and u hav the power to make up the math prob

event + partner + education + incident + health +  = result of life

^^

ciao

Answer 5

YES they should be concerned! A boy violating and then beating up a girl three years younger than he? That is serious! behavior like that only worsens with the years. If left alone, one day he'll end up brutally murdering a future girlfriend or wife of his. This should be taken very seriously and he needs to get in trouble for this.

Answer 6

Yeah, they should be concerned. You may think that loser guy wouldn't do it again, but who knows, he's a loser. And loser guys tend to be sore losers too so he might just try something again.

Answer 7

Your friends ex-boyfriend should NEVER put his hands on you

or your friend and he should never hit you.

Yes, your grandparents should be very concern and they should

definitely talk to this kids parents after what he did to you.

I'm very proud of you. haha

But I probably would've done more damage to this guy. (: