I dated this girl for 2 years and we broke up, now my ex doesnt want to be friends anymore?

Question

and i dont know why, can you help me out. i really do like her alot but she wont talk to me

Answer 1

my guess is she just needs time to get over it. if u just broke up with her you shouldn't give her flack for needing distance. respect her space. you can't just expect someone to go from a relationship to friends overnight. it's nice u want to stay friends but it's her prerogative to do whatever she needs to do.

feelings are unpredictable and volatile after a breakup. speaking from experience, my ex and I don't want the same things. she doesn't want to date and I don't want just a friendship. In time we'll be fine. but right now it's not possible without memories and feelings being stirred up. it's just not worth the trouble.  

Answer 2

it will be ok i had that happen to me but i got through it