I did kill my unborn child was this right?

Question

Thanks for answering my question about medical abortion,and informing me of what I did you pompous git I can't belive your female,I had to do it as there were serious health implications for both me and the baby,and I will probably never forgive myself.

Answer 1

Some women have different aspects on abortion, but if you think you made the right decisions, then don't take any c**p from nobody, you can probably have more children, I have different aspects, but many women have done it.  You have to be strong.

Answer 2

YOUR...health and your life is what matters first and foremost. Only YOU know what the circumstances were. Never regret a decision later that you made then as circumstances change every single day.

          Good Luck to you !

Answer 3

just tell anyone who is hard on you to p**s off as making this descision is not easy. but then most of them wont understand that because they've never had to make it. most of them are probably 12 anyways so i wouldnt bother with them

Answer 4

Not to put you down or anything.  But I think you should have put it up for adoption instead.  Thats what my friend Allie did.  She got pregnant at 16 and couldnt keep the baby, so she had a family adopt the baby.

Answer 5

Hey...

   i think its very wrong off u to do so imagine ur that child and u got killed by ur mom how wud u have felt???god put a child in u to be brought to this world but instead u killed it...thats low man very low...

i hope u never do this again if u dont want to get pregnant stop doin it...

Answer 6

You will learn to forgive yourself.

It took myself a long time.

Answer 7

There is no point in telling someone abortion is wrong after the event - unless they are planning on doing it again.

In your case you don't sound like you will so ignore the comments that have upset you and move on with your life.

You didn't have to do it - you had a choice and you made a choice - now stand by the choice you made.

If you want to move on but feel too much guilt try to turn something positive out of your experience - warn others how you felt afterwards so that they understand the choice they are making better.

Light a candle for your baby and ask God to let you have that child come to you again in the future at a time when you are ready for it - maybe even through adoption you may meet this child who knows.

Then move on - don't look back again - and think only positive thoughts. We all make descisions in our life we regret sometimes - but at the time you thought it was right and the person you were then is not the person you are now - live as this new person and love this new person. And don't read any negative comments - they are not intended for you but the person you used to be.

Answer 8

I'm totally against abortion buh if there was problms with the having the baby then i think wah ever you did was right at that time ..

Answer 9

Hi

in order for you to make a decision like this it would have taken allot of thinking and probably allot of medical issues for this to be your choice.

I personally am against abortion just because the person does not want the baby but I DO AGREE if it is for medical reasons

there are reasons that doctors tell expectant mothers of the health issues with their unborn baby

SO THAT THEY CAN MAKE AN INFORMED DECISION

If you know in your heart that you made then right choice then dont worry about what other people say to you because they were not in your position

Time will help you heal

Take Care  

Answer 10

agree with red - there are some insensitive hurtful people on here - just ignore them!

Answer 11

Oh! Don't feel bad.

It was the best idea. If you gave birth to it, you could have developed serious problems.

Also, the baby was technically not "living". It doesent even know what it is.

Dont worry about it! Women go through it all of the time.

Answer 12

This decision is not easy no matter the point of view, it cannot be said that the decision was right or wrong. It will take a long time before you feel better and you will need all your family & partner's support and love. I know you didn't wanted to do it deep inside and that you felt (and still feel ) a strong pain deep inside, this doesn't make you a bad person; is just you had no other way out.  Leaving aside the "is a sin" issue, see it from this side:

You returned an innocent angel back to the sky where he/she belongs, instead of this world of sin.

You were not prepared to be a mother and neither your partner to be a father, this child would have suffered and have a hard life because of being a gift that came earlier before the right time.

When you think these things, then you realize it was the only way out.

Keep strong and many blessings, never repeat it again.  

Answer 13

Anna,Abortions are not the easiest things to get over.  It would be as if you are killing a living being yourself.  If it helps some,I am not to judge you about this.  Sometimes the best thing that we can do for an unborn baby is to make sure it doesn't have to suffer long.  If there was complications for both you and the baby,And then yes,Abortion could be the right thing to do.  You would lose the baby,But in return,This baby's death saved your life.  Please don't be too hard on yourself,Anna.  You know how many teenage girls have abortions because they just aren't ready to become a mother?  I don't know but that is a awful crummy reason to have an abortion.  The child didn't have a choice to be born.  It just happened.  And yet,The teenage mother had a choice whether or not to keep this baby.  Anna,I don't quite know you that well.  But I would like to help you cope through this if I may.  It sounds like some people have been giving you heat about what you did.  Well,You know what?  They don't know you.  How dare they pass judgement on you when they don't even know you.  These people are such a**holes.  I'm sorry for my language,But that's what they are.  If you need someone to talk to,Someone to listen,I'd be honored to help.  You have a goodnight and sweet dreams,Anna.  Bye for now.

Answer 14

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Answer 15

Most of the people who say horrible things just say it to make themselves look good. If they had to look after all the sick and unwanted children in the world, they would keep their mouth shut. They're sick, as they care more about fertilised eggs than living people and try to make brave people like you feel bad. If they like making people feel bad if they have serious health implications, then they obviously don't care about people.

Answer 16

well think of this that baby had a life to live but don't hate your self because whats done is done why did you do it email me at [e-mail]

and  put answers in the reason box  

Answer 17

listen to yourself, not anyone else.