I dislike my v****a!!! (surgery isn't an option) need advice.. please?

Question

I really don't like my lips (my labia) They are longish and I don't like them. Did anyone see that documentary on "The perfect v****a"? And the girl that got the surgery on her labia? Well, mine look like hers (identical infact) I would love surgery but I can't afford it :( How can I begin to love my v****a?

Answer 1

You can start by being grateful for being healthy, and having a v****a that is exactly the way it should be. It's for function, after all, and it will serve it's purpose in this life. Who has decided what the perfect v****a is, anyway? Like people, they come in all shapes, sizes, colours; each are beautiful in their own way. And if it's any consolation, men don't really care either way.

Just thank God for your body, for what you've been given, and begin to understand that our bodies are only temporary houses for the soul - they ultimately don't matter since we don't take them with us.

Answer 2

Everyone is different you just have to learn how to accept yourself. Trust me their isn't a "prefect v****a" out there. Just build up your self-esteem, and remember no one is prefect. =)  

Answer 3

i know how you feel. mine are long too and i think they are so gross! I didn't see that but i guess we are just gonna have to start loving what we have.!

and your bf likes its.! so just go with that!  plus guys are gross looking too :D

Answer 4

Well I wish my p***s was a little bit bigger, but we all got to be thankful for what I have.    

Answer 5

v****a's aren't meant to look pretty  

Answer 6

I saw that documentary,and if your on about the woman who went with her friend and let them film it and was bleeding loads after wards,then your v****a sounds totally normal.Just start accepting that that is yours and its perfect without surgery!

Good Luck!

Answer 7

It's a v****a, no one cares how it looks like.

Nice guys like you for who you are.

Not so nice guys just want to get inside it.

Answer 8

Dont Hate It Every v****a Is Unique Just Think Of Your v****a As One Like No one elses and yours is very special just take a moment to get to know it !

Answer 9

Wow that really sucks for you, I dont have one but if I tuck it in it looks like I do!

Answer 10

you cant 'love' it. all vaginas are scary. girl have you seen the movie Teeth? yeah that movie proves exxactly how scary they are. vaginas can either look like bird beaks or they can look like big macs. but whichever one youre gonna have to accept it. guys think vaginas look scary anyway they just like how they work

Answer 11

Are you purposely trying to attract pervs?

But seriously..i have no idea besides surgery

Answer 12

you may treat it as naturally normal please!

Answer 13

Do you sit there just looking at it???

Seriously, how vein do you have to be to want surgery on that?

Ps, your questions/stories are not consistant with eachother i have a feeling you just seem to make things up for attention.

Answer 14

hunny its urs the only 1 like it be thankful u have 1 that works baby they are all different no 2 r the same so wat ever shape or size it is

its still a f***y n it works  

Answer 15

Most guys don't care how it looks. They just want to get in it. Just wait for a guy like me that waiting till marriage.

Answer 16

Dont worry! I am the same as u, i dont like my v****a and i have never been able to live with it.

My partner on the other hand says that women on television have ''fake fannies'' (lol) and he hates fake women.

Love yourself for who u are and not what u want to be.

Answer 17

What u talkin about! most lads arn't bothered love, I saw that show and it wasnt that bad. Your just being paranoid dont worry about it.

Answer 18

Well, think about people who have real problems, like cancer, AIDS, starvation, village raids, being homeless, losing a job, etc.

Answer 19

i dont think fellas are bothered by what it looks like once it works properly. And i don't think there are many females who actually like the way their labia or lips look, to be honest, im not exactly infatuated with mine so i dont look at it that often!

Answer 20

get a grip.  

Answer 21

let me be the judge of that.

Answer 22

I figure that your v****a is fine.  It sounds like you're in search of the perfect labia.  Know your parts and then worry about loving them.

Answer 23

Stop watching so much p**n and realize that a) there's no such thing as a perfect v****a, and b) no one who will be looking at it cares.

Answer 24

Dont worry guys arent that concerned what a v****a looks like,its the personality that counts

Answer 25

I cannot understand why that girl did what she did!

Labia - lips of life - are beautiful!

Don't change anything!

You are (we all are) beautiful - just because we are what we are!

There is more to life - y'know!?!/

Answer 26

This is not about what other people think. This is about what you think. You need to fulfill your self-efficiency expectations in life and if you are unhappy with any part of your anatomy (especially parts that are put emphasis on by society) then you need to solve your issues. Surgery would solve your problem, but if it is not in the picture, then there are not that many options. You need to learn to love what God has given you. The fact that there are tons of guys out there that like your v****a could help you learn to like it more yourself. It makes you different, in a good way. It makes you all the more rare and delectable in a sexual situation. There is not much I can say to a stranger to make them like their v****a better. You could possibly see a therapist about it if it is intruding on your s*x life or in any aspect of your life. If it doesn't bother you that much that you are willing to see a therapist for it, then you must not be as unhappy with it as you thought maybe.

I hope I helped at least a little.

Answer 27

lmfao!

seriously are you trying to get pervs to come here?

Don't worry! It doesn't matter most guys won't even care all the they care is to go in it  

Answer 28

va-jay-jay surgery? don't be silly. here's the fact of the matter:

All vaginas are ugly.

All penises are ugly.

think about it. have you really seen any you thought were very pleasing to look at? The s*x organs were just not made to be pretty!

Answer 29

There is no perfect anything. I don't know what you look like but I know your a beautiful person. I'm sure everyone has lil nooks and crannies they don't like about them, but thats what makes everyone unique. You should be you should be happy that you dont have any diseases or such involving your v****a like many do. You should love yourself for who you are. I know that some males find that attractive as well. Be Proud of whatcha got! Dont fall prey to what the world says is perfect or how they want you too look. You will just lose confidence in yourself and lose lots of money in the process!  I hope this helped. Good Luck<3

Answer 30

While I don't necessarily agree with the first answer, he makes a good point.

Why is it important that your bits and bobs look a certain way?  It's YOUR body and it's just as it should be.

Plus, we women spend WAY too much time obsessing over what looks "right" and what looks "wrong".  Most men that will ever see that aren't going to be sitting there thinking "wow, her labia are a little too long".  They are going to be WAY too busy trying to fall over from all the blood rushing downward and any coherent thought is going to be a lot closer to "HOORAY! There's a naked girl in front of me!".  

Relax.  There is no "perfect v****a" - no more than there is a perfect p***s.

Answer 31

Give it to me