I do not get along with my mom most of the time. PLEASE HELP?

Question

i am 14 years old. i get along with my dad fine, but i dont always get along with my mom. Unfortinatly, when my mom gets pissed at me, she pretty much makes my dad go on her side. I am not old enough to make big desions to move out ect. so i dont konw what to do. She is always yelling at me and she to sensitive. She can not take a joke. i have two brothers. one older one younger. Please help me i will highly apreciate it

Answer 1

just  talk  to  them

Answer 2

I was just the same at your age. Me & my Dad were great but I was not always as easy with Mam. Later in life it switched around - and it stayed like that. I later found Dad to be extremely difficult. My Mam and I were best friends until the day she died.

14 is not an easy age - I remember it well although I am old now.

Hormones are all over the place - I had a boyfriend - I had school, appendicitis etc etc etc - it was NOT easy! So you have all my sympathy.

All I can suggest is that you try to "ride the storm". Nothing lasts forever and another year will see huge changes in your life.

Try to remember that no matter how difficult family life can be both of your parents love you so much. Keep a low profile. Focus on studies & plan what you are going to do yourself when big decision time comes in life. Best wishes. UK

Answer 3

This usually happens at the teenage years especially with girls & mothers.  i'd do what she asks, always be respectful, but stay out of her way.  These times wiil pass later. Don't sweat it, Ur not the first, everyone goes through this.