I do not talk much in a group of people. tell me how tobe gud at talking while in a group of people?

Question

I do not talk much in a group of people. tell me how tobe gud at talking while in a group of people?

Answer 1

gud?? is that even english?

Answer 2

Read a lot of what Albert Ellis writes, then use his example, be brave and go out into groups and practice, practice, practice. With your new found skills you will probably begin to really enjoy talking in groups. Learn to not take yourself or anyone else too serious. Good Luck Just for the h**l of it purposefully say stupid things in the groups until you no longer feel  embarrassed by how  others or you respond.

Answer 3

Look on the internet for a Toastmasters group near you.  Go to a meeting and just be a guest.  It is an excellent way to learn to speak in front of groups and just gives you the confidence to talk when amongst a group.  It's very cheap and a positive reinforcement type group.

Answer 4

keep up with current events..........sports, stories in the news, get an opinion about them and bring in converstations.

gl

Answer 5

u hav to talk about why ur a loner

Answer 6

Try adding courtesy with the "I got nothing to lose" attitude.

You don't have to push yourself to copy or to be as good as someone.

Answer 7

I recommend listening and asking questions. Focus on one or two people at a time instead of the entire group. I find that with large groups of people, mini-conversations tend to sprout up, so pick one to jump into and ask away.

Answer 8

The age old trick of imagining them in their underwear.

Answer 9

Join a Toastmasters group.  Public speaking is a great way to gain confidence in yourself.  Toastmasters is a safe place to learn public speaking and become more outgoing.  Everyone in the group is in the same boat.  They are all trying to improve their speaking abilities.  Everyone gets a chance to give a short talk.  The whole group gives feedback to help them improve the next time.  

Improving yourself starts with the way you think.  Read positive books to build your confidence, like

Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0...

The Power of Positive Thinking http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0...

The Strangest Secret (movie)http://store.simpletruths.com/shared/aff...  

There are many to choose from.  I started reading these when I was 18.  It has made an incredible difference in my life.  I went from a shy introverted teenager to a manager in a multi-million dollar financial institution.  Good luck!

Answer 10

i feel u cos am in the same position as u and it's very hard.  sometimes u feel u don't belongin that group and  it's annoying.

Answer 11

Groups are easier to talk in because you don't have to keep your attention on one person.  Everyone gets to put in their own little bit about whatever you're talking about and the entire conversation isn't relying on you to keep it alive.  You don't always have to talk, you can just sit there and smile.  When you have something to add, jump in.

Answer 12

Practice.....Study human behavior by utilizing books, cd's ect....make deposits into peoples emotional bank accounts...take classes on how to socialize....and then Practice some more......Also look for someone who is a great communicator, study them and copy how they do it.