then when do we sleep, eat, clean, go to class, work, take showers, exercise, or anything else a normal human being will need, or want, to do? Or even have "alone" time with spouse? I was told to read this article:
http://www.hno.harvard.edu/gazette/1998/04.09/ChildrenNeedTou.html
It states that we should always tend to our children when they cry and "don't be afraid, we wont spoil them". Always pick them up. My daughter is 9 months. If I continued to pick her up every time she cried, I promise you that I will NEVER get anything done, and I would suffer from my third herniated disc since she was born. So what is the real deal people???? Is this just one battle I will not win? Will I always either hear, "Oh it is OK to let them cry" or "You will have a traumatized child if you let her cry". Which is it, really, can someone show me proof either way??? I hear from experienced mothers that they let their kids "cry it out" and they are fine. So is my 10 year old, so please, what is up?????
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