I do not want really want to . Hanging with parents....

Question

I would really rather not hang out with either of my parents alone at a theater , or play of fun and excitement. Resteraunts seem ok, but for some reason the idea of hanging with mom or my step father at a movie theater just seems odd and strange.

Both of them at the same time seems fine, but mono on mono just seems weird.

I rather be out with a girl in such a place, and interested in hanging out with her. Hanging out with parents though , I just don't like the idea, not at all.

I am 20 years old. I love my mother , and my step father is alright but I do not want to "hang out" with either of them mono on mono.

Answer 1

and the question is?  

Answer 2

u shouldnt feel guilty. you are your own person now and your a grown woman. u can spend time with them but "hanging out" thats 4 the friends and boyfriend/girlfriend

Answer 3

One of these days you won't have a choice. You will want to hang out with them and they won't be around to hang with. Take this chance before it's too late. They brought you into this world, or at least your mother did, don't make her feel like it wasn't worth the pain.  

Answer 4

I think that is normal to an extent.  Just remember that one day, you may wish you had that quality time with them to share things with.

Answer 5

I certainly understand that I would feel a little weird myself, but you should at least try it and maybe it wont be as bad as you think, look at this way, Its a really good deed you are doing to show appreciation to both your parents individually by spending time with them believe or not they feel a little down when they cannot connect with their children on their level, so just make em feel good, you might enjoy yourself!

Answer 6

yeah, that's not cool

Answer 7

So don't.  You're an adult you get to choose who you hang out with.