I don't care anymore...is this bad?

Question

My significant other and I got into it again last night over something stupid. I went to work and was upset the first half of the night and by the time I got home today I just didn't care. He didn't go to work the past three days and he's milkin' it for all it's worth. I just don't care. If he leaves...he leaves I don't care anymore. Is this wrong? Is there something wrong with me? Or am I just really angry?

Answer 1

I think everyone can get to that point if there's not enough love and respect in the r'ship.  What you're feeling is alot of hurt and anger that hasn't been resolved from past conflicts so it boils to the surface with each new argument.  Until the 2 of you resolve what's at the ROOT of these arguments, you'll just continue to feel this way.  If you really care about having a long term commitment with this person, then it's best if you evaluate NOW whether or not it's worth fighting for.  If you don't think this is a person you can see yourself with forever, then I would end it.  Life is too short to spend your time with someone you KNOW is bad for you or who doesn't love you the way you deserve.

Answer 2

google relationship tips

and learn to be best friends again.