I don't even know how to put this..but...?

Question

I realized today I'm afraid to come out because then it will be a real thing that i'm g*y ...not some make up thing ...(i guess i've thought this all along) but i am g*y and it is real and when i do tell people it wont be in my head anymore ...and that thought scares the h**l out of me..

wtf do i do? why am i thinking like this?

Answer 1

Um, because you are going through stage 1, 2 and 3 of coming out all at once. Stage 1 yourself, stage 2 safe people (internet, best friend, etc) and stage 3. Everyone else.

That's why, you should do it slowly in that order preferably.  

Answer 2

If you don't know how to put it, how can you be SURE that you're actually g*y?