I don't feel anything with him!?

Question

I have the sweetest boyfriend ever. I like him so much and I think about him all the time, I want to be with him all the time. So here's the problem: I don't feel anything when we kis!! Nothing, zip, nada.

If you've ever kissed anyone you really like before, you know it usually makes you feel tingly and you can't think straight and you feel all warm inside.

Why don't I feel that with him?!

Answer 1

  only with him!! have u ever feel different with some one else ? is so

that is problem !!

Answer 2

you don't love him maybe

he's nice but you don't love him

Answer 3

It's ok.  Don't make a big deal out of it.  We aren't in a hollywood movie and kissing isn't the SECRET just because a song or movie portrays that.  I kiss my wife all the time, and most the time it isn't a deeply romantic kiss.

Answer 4

may b its a attraction only b coz he's pretty cute.... or may b u dont have  interest over kisses.....  or may b his way of kissing isnt gr888........  try this  for few days... ask him to kiss only ur cheeks... and see what happens...........

Answer 5

Maybe you consider him more a good friend than a boyfriend? Sometimes in a relationship you don't fell all goo goo ga ga over kisses but it comes and goes.............Consider this before you do something and lose this sweet guy......Good Luck!  

Answer 6

cheer up. all you need is time. :)  give yourself some time.

Answer 7

i think you are too friendly and you expect more form him therefore...

i would suggest is expect less you would probably start having the feelings.....

good luck... don't miss sweet and good persons it will hurt you later... remember i said good person which is important .

Answer 8

How long have you been together? Sometimes the tingley feeling fades a bit

Answer 9

i have felt the same way right now. i know that i dont love him but he is way too good to let go.good luck  

Answer 10

i know exactly what you mean i had the same problem.

I don't know about you, but for me it was becasue i had to take control since he was never the first one to make a move on me. Now I get that tingly feeling when he surprises me with an unexpected hug and a kiss.

Also if you have a passionate make out session it helps get that tingly feeling again =]

hope this helps

Answer 11

Nice guys are not always the thermostat control you need to get hot. Better you check around before making a choice to see if someone else will ignite you.

Answer 12

its probably just because you feel so comfortable with him, that tingly feeling is normally nerves, butterflies because something seems exciting.. it goes after time. if you like him that much then why does the kiss matter?