I don't feel successful..any suggestion?

Question

I don't feel it..but others think I am!!

I am not proud of myself,I don't know why but I should be because I do some well..I feel stress because I'm afraid of being failed in TOEFL exam,you know I start my English since I was 11..what should I do????

I am stressful because I always want to be the best

Answer 1

I have the exact same problem! In fact, I started crying earlier this week because it was my birthday and I feel like I should be more successful at my age than I am. I put so much pressure on myself that I start panicking when I have to take tests, projects or have to perform in front of people.

All you can do is start to focus on the good about yourself, rather than what you think is bad. I think it really is all in your mind. Everyone else is happy and proud of you, you should be too!

Answer 2

Even though you want to do well, you put a lot of extra pressure on yourself if you're a perfectionist. Just do the best you can and don't worry afterward. I'm sure you'll do just fine. Get your mind onto something else once you've finished with something. Start a new project or a new course. Just do the best you can with each thing, and don't put so much pressure on yourself to be the best. No one is perfect.

Answer 3

you think you aren't because you haven't mastered english apparently because you probably really meant to say you are successful but judging how you strung the sentences above together you said you aren't. Learn english.

Answer 4

Everyone wants to make the "best" in life but nobody's "perfect", don't  be depressed if things aren't going well, (even I'm not 100% happy about many things, but the best thing to do is keep trying, make the best of things, life's too short to throw it away, don't give up-good luck.

Answer 5

You need to be more positive about what you are doing, if you keep telling yourself that you are going to fail, then fail you will. Talk to your teacher  or your parents about how you feel, but don't just bottle it up.

Get up tomorrow and tell youself' "I'm good and I'm going to show them just how good I am.

Answer 6

Hey! :) I got your message.. I'll reply after I write you this.

How old are you? I'm guessing you're a teenager.. or in high school.  You shouldn't stress yourself out about being the best. I'm not number 1 in my class, but I'm proud of my accomplishments because I know I try my hardest when I have to. Take pride in what you've accomplished and treat yourself for your hard work ;)

-Nini