I don't finger myself often, but when i do, i never ***? well, i never have... is there something wrong?

Question

&& yes, even if i do it hard it doesn't happen.

Answer 1

Does it feel good when you're doing it?

Maybe you need to play with your clitoris in order for you to c*m.

Good luck :)

Answer 2

you need to let me do it for you!!!

lol im just kidding

maybe you need to do it for longer?

Answer 3

ummm... I dont finger myself alot either b/c to me it just takes to long and I have never c*m either so i'm trying to figure that out also..but this is how i o****m..i get in the shower and i have a shower head that has alot of different setting so i set it on the one that shoots the water kind of directly..lay down in the tub part and put my v****a where the water can hit my clitoris...i move back and forth as if i was having s*x while all this time the water is hitting my C**t..think some happy thoughts and maybe even play with my breast alittle works everytime gurl...try it and get back to me and let me know how it turned out and if i was helpful to u..email at [e-mail]...much love...

Answer 4

The problem is that we ladies generally don't o****m from penetration.  You need to get to know your clitoris and develop a relationship.  That's where you'll get the big O.  

Dip a couple of fingers into a little bit of oil (baby oil, veggie oil, whatever) and start gently rubbing yourself.  Your clitoris is right at the top of your p***y.  It's just a little button.  If it hurts at first don't rub right on it, just rub around it then as you go try rubbing it again.  Experiment and see what feels best to you.  Once you've been doing it a bit you can slide your fingers up inside yourself to get more lubrication on them.  Go back and forth, penetration is wonderful but it's more likely to be your clitoris that will give you the best orgasms of your life.  Learn how you like to be touched so you can tell the future man in your life.  

Here are a couple of safe sites for you to read about your lady parts.

http://health.discovery.com/centers/s*x/...

http://www.teenwire.com/infocus/2005/if-...

This is a good picture cause you can click on different parts to see what they are and compare them to what you see on yourself.  

http://www.teenwire.com/interactive/diag...

Answer 5

This is very common, you may need to use a vibrator (will definitely get you there!), and remember that most women don't climax from penetration & need clitoral stimulation.

Answer 6

Some women don't ever **m or o****m either. They say only 30% of women do. I am one of hte ones who never does either of them. Sad I know. It doesn't mean you or a guy isn't doing anything right, its just your body. I'm married now, but I never orgasmed with any guy I had ever been with no matter how good it felt. So I wouldn't say anthing was wrong. I had researched it years ago, because I thought something was wrong with me too. But its nothing I can do about it. Sorry bout your luck