I don't get it.. why do the jocks do this to me?? (pic included)?

Question

okay so last year the jocks always made fun. like one made a song sumthing like this "u miiight have a dot on ur toe(i had a birthmark on my pinkytoe) buuut ur butt makes up for it." i always just ignored them or gave them this look. thats the thing tho, out of school i get some rlly hot guys's attention.. and im honestly not ugly. people think im pretty, i think im normal. im not super popular, im average. i wear preppy clothes, have normal hair. just an average teenager. the thing is, 2 yrs ago i made fun of the biggest jerk jock saying he has weird eyes(cuz he kept calling me fat) i used 2 be now im normal. u be the judge-

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anyway than last year this fat jock who ALWAYS made fun of me asked me to dance at this dance and i said no. after that he sortof ignored me 4 a while and started making fun of me again! wtf?! why am i sum joke to them, when out of school i get tons of hot older guys's attention?! i feel soo stupid=/ how do i make them stop? or better yet how do i stop being their inside joke or w/e?!

Answer 1

i bet they're just scared to ask you out because... you're reallyyyy hot! haha your not ugly your not fat your not average. your HOT! call me ;) im 17 lol

Answer 2

u r pretty but those guys r just saying stuff like that to get u to notice them. Guys don't care why or how u notice them as long as u do. It's weird...umm but trying just ignoring them or come up with a come back like "& the reason ur single is?....oo that's right ur g*y!" or something like that lol No guy likes rejection either so just tell that guy ur sorry about the dance thing but ur not into him. Trust me i've done the highschool thing and guys that aren't in highschool are alot more easier to attract cuz they dont have an "image" to uphold like jocks do. Hope i helped :D

Answer 3

I understand where your coming from, guys would do that to me all the time. It was annoying and I never understood it. They want to get to you. I know it sounds weird, but there are some people out there who get a high, or some pleasure out of getting to you. You were good to ignore it and sometimes that never helps, it never really helped me either. And as long as you are happy with who you are and are confident in yourself, what other people say, and what these idiots call you or say to you or sing to you shouldn't matter one bit. Also older guys are more mature. In my opinion older and more mature guys are hot. It takes longer for guys to mature than girls, but when they do, they usually tend to be gentlemen. No, that douchebag made fun of you and stuff so no, you don't need to second guess yourself for telling him to step off. But, you know what? he may have liked you. Im pretty sure you've heard that sometimes when guys make fun of you and get on your nerves and are mean, they like you. So that guy might have liked you and made fun of you to get your attention. It kinda seems like it because when you said he didn't talk to you for a while, it could have been because you hurt him. But don't feel bad, you did exactly what I would have done. Don't feel stupid. You shouldn't. Use that confidence in side you to rise above it. I know that sounds lame, but it helps a lot. Besides the guys at my school making fun of me and calling me names my brother use to call me the most hurtful names and say some hurtful things to me, and it use to hurt a lot, but ever since I grew confident in myself and became happy with who I am, my body, my personality, anything and everything, I have not listened or taken in anything anyone has said. You can listen to it, but that doesn't mean you have to take it to heart. When you take it to heart, that's when they know they have impacted you and gotten to you, which is what they wanted all along. Distance yourself from them if you can. If that doesn't work or isn't the case, keep on ignoring them girly, hang in there, it was tough for me, but I did it and so can you. Best of luck hun.Hope i helped.

P.S. you are not ugly. Far from it.

Answer 4

there jus immature and dont kno how to tell u they like u (ur not ugly) :P

Answer 5

just be the better person and don't let their comments or actions get to you.

most guys are seriously stupid and immature in high school believe me I know.

Answer 6

laugh it off.

Answer 7

stop talking to them.....

Answer 8

Omg you look amazing :) As for your other question some guys will just be jerks. You just have to ignore it. I'm sorry I don't really have any good advice but the best thing to do is just ignore it and keep your head up and keep smiling. Good luck!

Answer 9

thats just high school hun.

most popular guys think they can do and say whatever they want...

just continue to be the bigger person, and move on.