I don't have a boy friend but i want to feel loved by one i cant talk to boys ?

Question

got any ideas on how to feel loved

i am a romantic person i cant express my feeling to anyone

Answer 1

buy a dog, he'll love you forever

Answer 2

Sometimes a friend that's a boy can be the best help for you. They give clear cut, unoffensive advice as they're your friends and they know you. You should be comfortable with yourself. No amount of worrying and self-loathing is going to change the way you are. Try chatting to a few guys over the internet - purely innocently. Just to get new ways of talking to guys and small talk. That way you can build it up to guys you meet somewhere. You've really got to just go for it and think what's the worst that can happen? They say yes and you can see where it goes, they say no and you're pretty much in the same place you are now. There's no harm in trying!

Answer 3

Try learning to love yourself?.....seriously hun, nobody will love you until you love yourself. You don't need a boy to love you, you can't make someone love you anyway, it has to be mutual. I know from past experiences that the second you stop trying so hard, love will come and find you and it'll be totally unexpected and probably in the weirdest place.

Answer 4

This is something you've got to sort out yourself it's your problem. What's the big deal about talking to boys?

Answer 5

Artificial love does not feel the same. But by building your confidence you will believe you can talk to boys a lot more. Believe it or not some boys are shy and feel like they can't talk to girls. By building confidence in yourself you will feel better overall.

Answer 6

'romantic love' will come in its own time. Don't rush it. Get surrounded by friends and don't worry about finding a boyfriend or rushing it. Otherwise you'll end up with the wrong guy who will hurt you because you just wanted to get a boyfriend in order to be able to 'express your feelings'. Trust me on this. Your 'romantic feelings' will not die because you don't have a boyfriend before a 'due date' or 'expiry date' . There is no specific date to have a boyfriend. Enjoy your singleship time. :)

Answer 7

Spend time with trusted friends whom you love and who love you.  I know it is not the same but there are many kinds of love, not just romantic love.  Perhaps watch a romantic comedy on DVD or something and eat something that makes you feel good.  Try to focus on knowing your own identity and know that you are a whole person whether or not you have a boyfriend.

Answer 8

its not all that having a bf or gf believe me it can be a pain in the neck.