I don't have much friends at the stables only my horse. Does anyone have any suggestions ?

Question

Well i accualy have one friend that i dont even know her name =(

And i really wanna have more horsey friends....any ideas?

thanks sooo much

Answer 1

try being really outgoing. Try asking them about their horse and maybe getting tips from them. Horse people like it when you ask about their horse. They like to show off. So maybe you could start off a conversation with that and take it from there to break the ice and get to know some of them better.  

Answer 2

invite some of them round ur house to watch a film just be yourself and get to tknow them

Answer 3

I've found that group lessons really help people to make friends.  It's a good way to spend time with others and get to know them without sucking up to them.

Answer 4

I feel your pain. Before I started working at the camp at my barn, I didn't know anyone. But now I pretty much know everyone.

1) Join the camp program if you have one.

2) Ask questions about where people get their tack. If you are not surronded by a catty bunch, ask for advice.

3) Compliment people on their riding, or the way their horse is.

4) If you do shows, invite all your fellow show'ers to ice cream afterwards or something.

I really hope it works, I was so lonely before I got to know anybody.

Answer 5

hey ive been in the exact same positon as you, i find it realii hard to make friends and most horsey people are realii stuck up whitch makes it so much harder :/

ive found the easiest thing to do is to tell them things they want to hear, compliment them, even if there rubish at everything they do and you and everyone else around you knows it.

i think you should find out this persons name, she could have friends that she'll intreduce you to, i know its hard but just try your best.

hope i helped :) x