I don't know how i'm going to get out of this one!

Question

see i have a real strict mom we have different views on alot

for example my bf she thinks hes no good but she don't even know him hes great i love him. then tattoos i like them she hates them and i got one and no shes mad idk wat to do. i'm dissapointin her i'm only 16 bout to be 17 i get she's just watching out for me but i'ts my life how can i get her to trust me again

Answer 1

Your moms always right

Answer 2

I can't agree with "Ziggy" more. He is right!

Answer 3

stay out of trouble for awhile. think about what you are doing before you do it. if you think what you are doing is going to upset her, then don't do it. also, maybe you should apologize to her for breaking her rules. don't let her totally control your life though. who you date is none of her business unless he is rude to her, then she can form that kind of opinion.

and about the tattoo, there's nothing you can do. maybe keep it covered so she's not reminded. just keep a low profile  

Answer 4

How can you expect her to like someone she's never met?  Give her a chance to know him.  Invite him over for dinner, or suggest that you and him and both your parents all go out to dinner so you can all get to know each other.  Ask him to explain his tattoos and their significance to her.

How can you expect her to blindly trust you when you make important, permanent decisions like getting a tattoo without telling her first?  If you don't openly explain to her what you are doing and why, how do expect her to trust that your decision is a good one?

Communication and trust is a two-way street - you got to give if you want to get.  So take the first step.

Answer 5

Sit her down, if you're serious about regaining her trust and respect, and have a long talk.  As long as you're underage and under her roof, you have no right to defy her authority. If you have the urge to be rebellious, wait until you've moved out. Remember, your mother's not trying to be a b****, but trying to raise you the best she knows how under difficult circumstances.  Good luck to you.

Answer 6

same here I'm also 16 wit the same prob this is what u do if u and ur mom get along enough shell get over the fact that u have the tattoo but give it some time because honestly what can she do (nothing)its permanently                on YOUR skin and she cant take it off unless shes willing 2 pay 2 much money 2 get it removed but dont worry about it give her time she'll get over it trust me i do the same thing n my mom doesn't talk 2 me 4 a few days cuz deep down they know they really like it lol but their pride wont let them admit it