I don't know how to love myself?

Question

Lisa J: I see...You answer was good.

Answer 1

This is a very sad and emo question. It does spiral thoughts in me if I'd ever known how to love myself too, which I didn't for a long time. But lately I find myself being loved in the remotest possible way, and I begin to love myself. I can't offer much wisdom and advice to you that are not cliche. Just do whatever it takes you. God does have His strangest timing in turning our lives around.

Answer 2

write down your positives and your negatives. think how you can increase positives and reduce negatives. i do this thing. especially during my birthdays, new year days i take an oath regarding this practise. i.e on those days i would start either a positive or drop a negative. this will increase your self esteem.

then, speak to those who love you and care for you. if there are neither, start conversing with yourself. often say 'i love myself' when you feel depressed.  

never give in to inferiority complex. these are the ways i could think of.

i like lisa's suggestion too

Answer 3

Most of us don't.  It is something that comes from within you.  Wy don't you get a notebook and every day write down 3 things about you that are positive?  Then write down 1 negative thing and try to change it.  There is no magic way to learn to love yourself.  It is a process.  Personally speaking, I never learned to love myself until I became closer to G-d.  No need for rude comments people - my way may not be the same as yours, but that doesn't make it wrong.  Good luck!

Answer 4

The easiest way to love yourself is to look at yourself at the mirror and admire what you are and think about the goodness in you and try to do something good for the society if not possible do something good for your own family person. It is when your own people do not respect or love you, than only you can feel so depressed.

You have to overcome very fast for the people around it, because if you are depressed, the surroundings automatically sings the same tune.