I don't know how to make my own Decisions?!?

Question

I simply don't know how to make my own decisions maybe I don't have self-confident or I don't really know!

now my family want me to have a training in one of the companies I don't want to but I don't know what to do! I'm thinking if I agree I won't be happy but I won't get hurt from my family.

If I don't agree I afarid of feeling so badly because of my family cause they want me to agree so I will hear some kinds of these statments ( you are so lazy), (you won't achieve any thing) or ( you had a great chance but you throw it away).

what can I do?! I have been crying most of my time because I don't know what should I do!!

please help me

Answer 1

im in somewhat of the same boat as you. i graduated high school in '07 and ive been taking general ed classes in college since graduation simply cause i dont know what the h**l i wanna do with my life. i get the same thing "you should be this, you should be that, you're wasting your time by not taking actual courses blah blah blah" i mean im the first of my family to go to college straight outta high school. i know i wouldnt wanna be a doctor or lawyer or ne of that stuff cause of all the stress. it disappoints my family but hey, its my life, its gonna be something i do for the rest of my life, i gotta love what i do. not go for the money and the money only. do what you wanna do. if you wanna work for the family company, do it, but if not, say you dont wanna do it and tell them its not for u. you wanna do your own things. tell them why you dont wanna do it. if you always let people make your decisions for you they always will and they will always think you dont have an opinion for yourself. stand up for yourself. you might feel bad at first but in the longrun you'll be alot happier. trust me.